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10 Ways to Tell If You’re Bad at Sex, And How to Fix It
When people worry about being bad at sex, they usually focus entirely on physical mechanics. But as a sex and relationship coach, I know that great sex is actually a reflection of emotional safety, active listening, and open communication.
If you missed the feature in the media, here is my full, raw, and real breakdown of the 10 bedroom red flags and the exact coaching tools you can use to bring the spark right back.

Gemma
Jun 215 min read


Kitchen Intimacy: Why Cooking Together with Your Partner is the Ultimate Relationship Reset
We live in an incredibly fast-paced world where food is often treated as fuel or just another chore on a never-ending to-do list. I am challenging couples to step away from the microwave and look at the kitchen through a completely different lens.
The act of planning, preparing, and cooking meals together is one of the most underutilised, powerful tools for physical and emotional connection. It is an environment where devices are put away, screens are turned off, and partner

Gemma
Jun 194 min read


Backyard Boundaries: How to Navigate Attraction and Secrets with Your Neighbours
Living in close proximity to people means our personal lives and social boundaries naturally overlap. But what happens when neighborly relations become a bit more complicated?

Gemma
Jun 174 min read


Love, Lies, and Leftovers: The Deep Psychology of Snacking in Relationships
Have you ever noticed that you snack significantly more when you are in a relationship? Or perhaps you have found yourself hiding your favorite treats at the back of the pantry so your partner won't find them?
We are diving deep into the fascinating connection between our love lives and our eating habits. Food is a central pillar of how we socialise, bond, and cope with our feelings. But when does shared snacking cross the line from cozy comfort into emotional secrecy?

Gemma
Jun 164 min read


Speaking Their Heart: Why Love Languages Are the Secret to a Lasting Relationship
When it comes to building a deeply connected, thriving relationship, understanding how you and your partner give and receive affection is everything. This is where the concept of The 5 Love Languages becomes an invaluable tool.

Gemma
Jun 154 min read


The Rise of the Home Café: How Creating a Coffee Shop Vibe at Home Deepens Intimacy and Connection
The home café trend is taking over social media, but it is much more than just a aesthetic home decor movement. As a sex and relationship coach, I look at the environments we build and how they affect our emotional state.
Transforming a corner of your house into a cozy, personal coffee shop creates a relaxed, comfortable atmosphere that you simply cannot get in a busy public space. Whether you are looking to reignite a romantic spark, support a friend in need of a heart-to-he

Gemma
Jun 144 min read


The Power of Purposeful Wedding Gifts: How Personalisation and Shared Experiences Keep the Spark Alive
When we think of wedding gifts, it is easy to get caught up in the standard department store registries. But as a sex and relationship coach, I look at gifts through a completely different lens: How will this token support the marriage long after the wedding day is over?
Thoughtful, personalised keepsakes and experience-based gifts aren’t just beautiful objects; they are substantial representations of a couple's shared history and future dreams.

Gemma
Jun 124 min read


Can You Really Stay Friends with a Short-Term Ex? The Unique Challenges and How to Navigate Them
Choosing to stay friends with an ex after a short-term relationship presents a very specific set of hurdles. While the romance might have been brief, the emotional fallout can be surprisingly intense.
As a relationship coach, I often see clients struggle with lingering romantic or sexual feelings, unwanted attention, and the sheer difficulty of maintaining platonic boundaries when the breakup is still fresh.

Gemma
Jun 113 min read


The Rise of Jet Set Arousal and the World's Best Intimacy Destinations
According to recent data from the Great British Sex Report, intimacy is officially going global. Nearly one in five Brits (19%) say they actively want to plan trips with sex and physical connection as the primary focus.
We are seeing a massive shift from standard beach holidays to intentional, romance-led city escapes, secluded cabin breaks, and specialised sexual wellness destinations.

Gemma
Jun 44 min read
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