The Pleasure Guide
Welcome to The Pleasure Guide
Your Invitation to Reclaim Joy, Radiance, and Intimate Bliss
Welcome to your modern guide to sexual happiness and somatic fulfillment. Here, I’m cutting through the marketing noise to give you completely honest, professional reviews on the best intimacy essentials in the industry—from leading names like Lovehoney, Pulse & Cocktails, OMG YES, and Sxey.
Whether you are exploring solo intimacy to awaken your own body or looking to ignite fresh, exciting sparks with your partner, these curations are selected to empower your personal wellness journey.
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The Ultimate Guide to Cock Chastity Cages – Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Exploring Consensual Control, Teasing & Deep Trust
If you and your partner have ever been curious about exploring male chastity, the biggest mistake people make is jumping straight into things without talking through boundaries first or picking the completely wrong material for their body. Chastity play isn't just about locking things away. It sits right at the heart of BDSM, turning physical restraint into a deeply psychological, exciting dynamic that can build incredible closeness between partners.
Whether you want a supportive teasing sleeve to boost erection firmness, or a true lock-and-key cage for orgasm denial and power exchange, picking the right material is essential. Today, we’re breaking down three distinct options across three totally different materials: flexible silicone, lightweight polycarbonate, and classic body-safe metal.
3 Core Styles: Which Material Fits Your Play?
1. The Teasing Entry Point: Silicone Cock Cage Sleeve
If you want the visual look and feel of restriction without any lock-in commitment, this is your perfect starter. It isn't a locking device, it’s a stretchy, 4-inch silicone sleeve with an open-bar ribbed look and an integrated base ring. It hugs an erection firmly to help trap blood flow for enhanced stamina and fullness, making it brilliant for light sensory play and bedroom teasing.
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2. The Visual Tease: Clear Polycarbonate Chastity Cage
This is a true locking device, and it is easily the most beginner-friendly cage of the group! Made from crystal-clear, lightweight polycarbonate, it gives the keyholder a teasing, erotic view of what’s being denied while keeping the wearer entirely hands-off. It comes with modular rings and spacers so you can dial in an exact, non-pinching fit, plus built-in ventilation slots for easy hygiene. It fastens securely with a classic brass padlock.
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3. The Classic Weight: Open Metal Chastity Device
Crafted from solid, rigid, body-safe stainless metal with a smooth 40mm base ring, this delivers that unmistakable cool-touch weight and total surrender. Its open-frame wire design keeps it surprisingly lightweight and breathable, with a dedicated front opening for daily hygiene so it can be worn safely during longer scenes.
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A Little Tip: Fitting is everything with locking devices! Always put a cage on when completely flaccid, and use a generous drop of water-based or silicone-based lube to glide past the base rings without any pinching. A cage should hold you comfortably and securely, it should never dig, pinch, or cause physical pain.
The Coaching Key: Consent & The Traffic Light Rule
Because chastity is fundamentally an exchange of control, it cannot happen without absolute, ongoing consent and clear communication. Never lock a partner into a device without having an "off-bed" chat over a cuppa first. Agree on your boundaries and put a strict traffic-light system in place:
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Green: You’re both comfortable, happy, and loving the dynamic.
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Yellow: Pause, check the fit, adjust positioning, or ease off.
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Red: The key comes out and the cage unlocks immediately, no questions asked.
When that foundation of safety is rock solid, the psychological thrill is incredible. For the wearer, handing over the key removes every scrap of performance anxiety, there’s no pressure to last longer, perform, or finish. For the keyholder, it builds intentional presence and leadership. Denying direct access rewires arousal across the entire body, so when that lock finally clicks open, the release is out of this world.
Handbag Sex Machine Pro (Black) Review – Pulse & Cocktails
An Honest Look at Hiding Pleasure in Plain Sight.
When you hear the words "sex machine," most people picture huge, heavy, industrial equipment that is impossible to store away in a normal bedroom. So when the Handbag Sex Machine Pro arrived, I was very intrigued, and I have to say, I absolutely love the way it looks like a bag. It is genuinely so stylish and sleek that no one would ever know what was actually inside it just by looking at it sitting in your room or wardrobe. It is quite heavy when you lift it up, but I really love it for the style and discretion.
I wasn't entirely sure about this one at first, but Darren and I gave it a really good try during our bedroom antics to see how practical it actually is.
Once unclipped, the bag unfolds into a fully functioning hands-free thrusting machine. It features 15 adjustable angles, 9 thrusting speeds, and 6 vibration modes, all operated by a wired remote control. It comes with a 13.5cm silicone dildo, plus an adapter plate with a suction connector so you can attach your own favourite toys to the thrusting arm.
When we tested it out, we stuck a dildo onto the adapter plate. It did stick for a little bit initially, but during use, it kept losing suction and falling off, which was a bit frustrating! Because we haven't got anything else with a suction pad to hand right now, we couldn't test it with alternative toys. If you're planning to attach your own dildos, you'll definitely need one with an ultra-strong, perfectly smooth suction base to withstand the mechanical thrusting action without popping loose.
When it is running smoothly, the concept itself is fascinating. Because the machine holds the exact angle and keeps a steady, tireless rhythm for you, it completely takes away the physical effort of thrusting or holding demanding postures. That makes it brilliant for solo sessions where you want full hands-free penetration, or for couples where one partner wants to take the remote and direct the pace without wearing out their arms.
A Little Tip: Coat your toy generously with a good water-based lubricant before switching the motor on.
My biggest coaching advice with any automated machine is to start on the lowest, slowest thrusting speed. When penetration is completely mechanical, you don’t have to do any balancing or upper-body work. Lie back, take a few slow, deep breaths, and give your pelvic floor plenty of time to naturally soften and welcome the sensation before you even think about turning up the speed.
A very unique, travel-friendly design that keeps things completely hidden in plain sight—just keep in mind the weight when lifting, and make sure any toys you attach have a really solid suction base!
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Luxury Retro Rabbit Vibrator Review – Pulse & Cocktails
I loved, loved, love this one.
If you’ve ever tried a traditional rabbit vibrator, chances are you know the struggle: you end up awkwardly wrestling with the angle, trying to keep the internal shaft hitting your G-spot while desperately preventing the clitoral arm from slipping out of place. Most classic rabbits are far too rigid, turning what should be pure relaxation into an uncomfortable balancing act.
The Luxury Retro Rabbit Vibrator completely fixes that problem.
Wrapped in seamless, velvety-soft body-safe silicone, it features a curved, firm 4.5-inch insertable shaft paired with an ultra-flexible external stimulator arm. The real game-changer here is that it is powered by two completely independent motors with 10 distinct vibration modes. It also has a lovely ergonomic finger-loop handle at the base, meaning you can guide and adjust it effortlessly without getting hand cramps mid-play.
Because the clitoral arm has plenty of pliable flex, it actually contours and hugs your body naturally, staying right where you need it without digging in or slipping away as you move.
A Little Tip: Coat the 4.5-inch insertable shaft generously with a good water-based lube, guide the curved tip inward facing toward your belly button, and let the flexible external arm settle gently over your clitoris.
My key coaching tip: decouple the sensations first! Because the two motors operate independently, don't just blast both ends on high straight out of the gate. Turn the internal shaft on a slow, low rumble first. Close your eyes, take a few deep belly breaths, and let your body adapt to the internal fullness. Only once your pelvic floor feels completely warm, soft, and relaxed should you introduce the clitoral motor. Layering your arousal this way builds a slow, deep release rather than triggering sudden sensory overload.
Dual stimulation feels so profoundly intense because it engages the entire clitoral network at once. Most people forget that what we see externally is only the tip of the iceberg; the internal shaft stimulates the internal clitoral roots and bulbs from behind, while the flexible arm targets the sensitive external glans.
Engaging both sides simultaneously creates a complete pelvic feedback loop, unlocking those breathless, deep, blended whole-body climaxes.
Most definitely worth checking out if you want a reliable, beautifully contoured rabbit that takes the effort out of dual pleasure.
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Lasts Boost Delay Gel (15ml) Review – Pulse & Cocktails
We loved this one. Performance anxiety and oversensitivity are two of the most common concerns clients bring to my coaching sessions, yet so many people suffer in silence. When men do look for help, they often end up grabbing harsh desensitising sprays or numbing creams that completely freeze the penis, which often backfires and makes you lose your erection entirely!
If you want to last longer without losing touch with your body, the Lasts Boost Delay Gel takes a far smarter, more natural approach.
Packaged in a discreet, pocket-sized 15ml tube, this fast-absorbing gel uses gentle natural botanicals, including soothing clove and cooling menthol, to softly dial down intense oversensitivity. Rather than chemically deadening your nerve endings, the cooling sensation gently regulates and buffers that sudden, overwhelming rush of friction. You keep full physical awareness and firmness, but your arousal curve smooths out, giving you genuine control over your pacing.
It is brilliant for anyone dealing with rapid climax, men wanting extra staying power, or couples simply looking to enjoy longer, drawn-out sessions without needing pills or heavy gadgets.
A Little Tip: A little goes a very long way! Dispense just a pea-sized amount onto your fingertips and massage it gently over the glans, shaft, and even the scrotum a few minutes before play so it has time to absorb fully.
My key coaching advice here is to stop rushing the lead-up. Worrying about finishing too quickly creates a vicious cycle: the more you stress about climaxing fast, the tighter your pelvic floor grips, which actually triggers rapid ejaculation! Use the 5 minutes while the gel absorbs to lie back, close your eyes, and take three slow, deep belly exhales. Giving your nervous system a moment to adapt to the cool tingle resets your stress response before touch even begins.
When you take away the panic of finishing too quickly, sex stops feeling like an anxiety test and becomes a relaxed, pleasurable experience where you can stay fully present in the moment.
A fantastic, gentle bedside staple to boost your confidence and take the pressure off in the bedroom.
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The Ultimate Guide to Penis Extender Sleeves – Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Most people assume that penis extender sleeves are purely about adding size, but in reality, they are one of the smartest tools you can bring into the bedroom. They completely change up internal friction, help pace your climax, and open up brand-new shared sensations, all without the nagging pressure to perform.
Whether you're looking for extra length, fuller girth, or simply want to buffer shaft sensitivity so you can last longer, having the right style makes all the difference. We took a closer look at five very distinct extender sleeves to see how each one works in real life.
5 Distinct Styles: Which One Is Right for You?
Extender Style
Realistic Smooth (Dark/Tanned)
Realistic Textured (Dark/Tanned)
Clear 2-Inch Sleeve
6-Inch Vibrating Sleeve
9-Inch Remote Control Sleeve
Best For
Natural, lifelike glide
Intense internal friction
Visual stimulation & solo/partner view
Targeted, concentrated
buzz
Ultimate power & shared control
Standout Feature
Adds 2 inches of length + 30% girth with lifelike
veining
Raised studded nubs
along the lower half for
extra texture
Transparent ribbed body letting you watch the action live
Built-in head pocket with a removable vibrating bullet
12 vibration modes, base anchor loop & wireless remote
1. Realistic Smooth (Dark/Tanned Skin)
If you want pure anatomical realism, this is the one to go for. Crafted from body-safe TPR, it adds a solid two inches of length and roughly 30% extra girth. It features lifelike veining along the shaft for a natural, smooth glide that feels very familiar and comfortable during intercourse.
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2. Realistic Knobbly Textured (Dark/Tanned Skin)
Using the same flexible TPR base and two-inch extension, this version steps up the sensation with raised studded nubs along the lower half. If your partner craves intense internal friction and tactile fullness, those nubs stimulate the sensitive outer third of the vaginal entrance with every stroke.
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3. Clear 2-Inch Sleeve
If you and your partner get aroused by watching what's happening, this transparent sleeve is brilliant. Made from stretchy, crystal-clear material, it lets both of you see the penetration as it happens. The inside has subtle textured ribs that gently massage your own shaft, while the firm, solid tip gives your partner targeted fullness.
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4. 6-Inch Vibrating Sleeve
This design features a dedicated pocket moulded right near the tip to hold a removable vibrating bullet. It delivers concentrated buzz right where deep internal contact happens. If you fancy a change, you can easily pop the bullet out and use it as a classic non-vibrating extender sleeve, or use the bullet on its own for foreplay!
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5. 9-Inch Remote Control Vibrating Sleeve
The powerhouse of the group! It features 12 deep vibration modes and comes with a built-in stretchy anchor loop that slips behind the base of the penis and testicles to keep the sleeve securely locked in place so it won't slip off. Best of all, it has a wireless remote so your partner can dictate the vibration tempo completely hands-free while you enjoy the ride.
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A Little Tip: The golden rule for every single sleeve is to use plenty of water-based lube inside, so your penis slides in easily, and coat the outside generously for your partner’s comfort
A quick coaching care tip for the TPR sleeves: TPR material can feel slightly tacky after washing. Once it is completely clean and air-dried, lightly dust it with a pinch of cornflour to keep that lovely silky-smooth finish.
Sleeves act as a gentle sensory buffer. By taking the intense, direct friction off the most sensitive nerve endings on the head of the penis, they naturally help reduce overstimulation. This gives you back control over your pacing and lets you last longer without going numb.
That extra girth gently engages the outer third of the vaginal canal where most of the sensitive nerve endings are clustered, while the extended firm tip reaches deep sweet spots without either of you having to contort into demanding or tiring positions. It turns penetration from a high-pressure workout into a shared, relaxed sensory experience.
Vibrating Testicle Stimulator Cock Ring Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Most standard cock rings on the market focus purely on the shaft and completely ignore the testicles, which leaves out an enormous area of pleasure. Darren and I decided to test out the Vibrating Testicle Stimulator Cock Ring to see how this dual-action design works in real life, and it is such a clever concept.
The ring is crafted from smooth, body-safe silicone with a very clever shape. It features a beaded inner band that fits comfortably around the base of the erect penis to support staying power, plus two flexible, hinged wings covered in raised texture nubs. Once the ring is on, those wings fold gently upward to cradle the testicles, cupping them in place so the rumbling motor can stimulate both areas simultaneously. It has 10 different vibration modes, all controlled by a single, easy-to-reach button right on top that you can tap without fumbling mid-play. Darren really enjoyed it.
When we tried it, the sensation was genuinely different from any traditional ring. The beaded texture inside the band adds a lovely snug grip that keeps erections firm and full, while the vibrating wings send deep, rumbly pulses right into the delicate underside nerve endings of the scrotum. What made it even better was that during intercourse, those vibrations transferred straight against my body as well, giving us a delicious shared buzz with zero extra effort.
A Little Tip: Always use a generous amount of water-based lubricant when sliding this into place so the silicone glides on smoothly and the beaded band sits comfortably at the base.
In my coaching practice, I notice that so many men hold subtle tension in their scrotum when they feel performance pressure, which can actually restrict circulation and get them stuck in their heads. My coaching tip is to slip this on, lie back, and let the gentle vibrations remind your testicles to drop and relax. When those muscles soften, the whole pelvic floor follows, letting your body slip straight into pleasure mode.
Most definitely worth checking out if you want to explore something fresh, wake up new nerve endings, and bring dual stimulation into your bedroom routine.
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3 Piece Pink Bondage Kit Review – Pulse & Cocktails
If you and your partner have ever felt curious about exploring kink or light power dynamics, but felt totally intimidated by heavy leather gear, intense ropes, or fear of feeling silly, this kind of beginner-friendly set is designed to strip all that scare factor away.
Darren and I decided to test out the 3 Piece Pink Bondage Kit during our bedroom antics, and keeping it 100% honest with you, we didn't really like it. It was a bit of light-hearted fun to giggle through, but it just wasn't for us. Heavy roleplay or bondage really isn't our cup of tea. However, if you are someone who genuinely wants to dip your toes into BDSM without feeling overwhelmed, this is actually a really gentle, non-threatening way to start.
The set includes three playful essentials:
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Padded Satin Blindfold: Ultra-soft against the eyes with an elastic strap so it doesn't pinch your hair.
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Fluffy Pink Handcuffs: Lined with soft faux-fur so they won't dig into your wrists, complete with working safety-release keys.
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Light Faux-Leather Teaser Flogger: Soft, flexible tails that deliver gentle sensory strokes rather than painful thuds. (This gave me the tingles all over my body when Darren draped it across my back which was a nice feeling.)
Everything is lightweight and distinctly un-scary. Because the flogger is so light, it acts much more like a teasing tickler than anything severe, making it great for soft sensory play across the shoulders, back, or chest.
My Golden Coaching Rule for Kink: Never introduce restraints or sensory deprivation in the heat of the moment.
Have an out-of-the-bedroom chat first over a cuppa on the sofa. Talk about what feels fun, what is completely off-limits, and agree on simple traffic-light safe words: Green (love it, keep going), Yellow (pause, slow down, or adjust), and Red (stop immediately and unclasp everything).
When you try it, take tiny baby steps. Slip the blindfold on first, taking away sight naturally dials up your other senses and builds anticipation without feeling trapped. Always finish with aftercare: take off the cuffs, cuddle up, grab a glass of water, and check in with each other so your nervous systems feel completely safe and grounded.
Even though it wasn't the right fit for Darren and me, exploring light kink can be a wonderful trust-building exercise for couples who want to play with control and heighten anticipation.
A fun, cheeky entry point if you want to experiment with light restraint without taking yourselves too seriously.
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Sex Enhancer Pillow with Pleasure Wand Kit Review – Pulse & Cocktails
If you ever find yourself getting pulled completely out of the mood by lower back aches, hip tension, knee strain, or just feeling a bit awkward trying to hold certain angles in bed, this kit is going to change everything for you. Darren and I tested out the Sex Enhancer Pillow with Pleasure Wand Kit during our bedroom time, and we both really, really liked it.
In my coaching work, I often suggest popping a normal bed pillow under the hips to get a gentle pelvic lift, but using this purpose-built firm wedge is a completely different ball game. Regular pillows squish flat in seconds and leave you sliding around, whereas this ergonomic wedge has a dense, supportive foam core wrapped in a lovely velvety, warm-touch cover that actually holds your full body weight without collapsing. When it comes out of the packaging, it takes around 24 hours to really get to the proper shape. So I would suggest to leave it somewhere where it can grow and then come back to it the day after.
We used it to tilt my pelvis up much higher and experiment with some completely new angles. That extra elevation made a massive difference. It allowed Darren to go much deeper without either of us having to strain, and because my pelvis was propped higher and angled so naturally, it created so much more friction and direct pleasure for both of us. Because of my hip dysplasia, it really helped take the pressure off from my pelvis. It completely takes away the physical effort of having to hold yourself up, meaning your pelvic floor can actually relax and let the sensations take over.
The kit also comes with a compact, rumbly pleasure wand featuring three interchangeable silicone heads, and the wedge even has a dedicated slot where you can dock the wand upright for completely hands-free grinding during solo play or couple’s fun. It also includes a bottle of water-based Love Lube and an antibacterial toy cleaner, so you have the entire setup ready to go.
A Little Tip: Tuck the wedge right beneath your hips or lower back, take a long, deep exhale, and let the foam take your entire body weight.
Tilting your pelvis naturally opens up internal angles, exposing the G-spot and clitoral nerve networks to much closer, effortless contact without needing any force. When your hip flexors and lower back aren't clenching to keep you propped up, your nervous system can channel all that energy straight into arousal, leading to much deeper, wave-like climaxes.
If you want to take the strain out of intimacy, try exciting new positions, and deepen your connection, this kit is well worth having in your bedroom.
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Ribbed Silicone Butt Plug Set Review – Pulse & Cocktails
If you’ve ever felt curious about exploring anal play but found yourself held back by anxiety about starting too big or feeling out of control, this graduated kit is such a fantastic, reassuring way to begin. Training your body should never feel intimidating, and having a set that steps up slowly puts you 100% in the driver's seat.
The set comes with four beautifully made, body-safe silicone plugs, each with a tactile spiral ribbed texture and wide, sturdy flared safety bases at the bottom. What makes this set so practical is the clear progression: you start with a tiny, beginner-friendly 2.5-inch plug, stepping gradually up through 3 inches and 3.5 inches, right up to a 4-inch extra-large plug for when you're feeling more adventurous. The silicone itself is so velvety, matte, and has a lovely forgiving flex through the neck, so it moves comfortably with your body rather than feeling stiff or rigid.
That spiral ribbing is what really makes the sensation so interesting! Every time you move, shift your weight, or gently squeeze your pelvic floor, the raised ridges create subtle micro-friction against the dense cluster of sensory nerve endings just inside the entrance. It feels deeply satisfying and helps retrain your nervous system to associate that full feeling with relaxation rather than clenching up.
My Golden Coaching Rule: Please never treat anal training like a race to the largest size.
Because the body doesn't self-lubricate here, make sure to coat both yourself and the plug generously with a thick, water-based anal lubricant. Warm up the smallest plug in your hands, rest the tapered tip at the entrance, and take a long, slow exhale as you ease it in. My favourite client exercise is to simply wear the smallest size while reading or relaxing in bed. Letting your sphincter muscles gently adapt without any pressure allows your body to drop out of fight or flight guarding and slip into a calm rest and digest state. Only step up to the next size when your body naturally feels open and receptive.
Give your body permission to take things slow and ease in at your own pace—there is zero rush!
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Rechargeable Flickering Clit Stimulator Review – Pulse & Cocktails
If you’ve ever wished you could bottle up the exact feeling of warm, gentle oral sex on tap whenever you fancied it, you are going to absolutely love this toy. I really, really liked this one! When I tried it, it truly did feel like someone was giving me oral sex. It mimics that warm, teasing, fluttering touch so well without any of the heavy, noisy vibrating you get from standard toys.
The design is brilliant. It looks just like a luxury beauty compact with a gorgeous metallic rose gold lid, which makes it totally discreet and handbag-friendly if you want to take it away for a weekend. But when you pop that lid off, inside sits a contoured, soft silicone cup featuring a tiny, motorised flexible tongue. It comes packed with 8 different oral-style rhythms, and what I loved most is that each single mode feels completely different. Every setting brings its own unique rhythm and sensation, from light, rapid flickers to slower, rhythmic laps, so you can switch between them depending on what your body is craving.
Because it uses intermittent, teasing contact rather than a constant, buzzing motor, it prevents that annoying clitoral numbness or nerve fatigue you sometimes get from standard vibrators. It keeps your 10,000 clitoral nerve endings awake, keeps the blood flowing, and leads to a much softer, deeply satisfying full-body climax.
A Little Tip: Add just a tiny bead of water-based lube right onto the silicone tip before you switch it on.
My biggest coaching advice with this toy is: please don't press it hard against yourself! So many women get into the habit of mashing a toy down firmly because they are trying to rush an orgasm. With this, you want to barely let the flexible tongue skim your skin. Just let the fluttering do all the hard work while you close your eyes and take a few slow, deep belly breaths. That lightness lets your nerve endings truly open up!
If you love oral stimulation and want a toy that genuinely replicates that soft, teasing tongue action, this is definitely worth treating yourself to.
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Love Lube Anal Water Based Lubricant (150ml) Review – Pulse & Cocktails
So many people tell me they are curious about exploring anal play or using plugs during date night, but hesitation, worry, and tight muscles stop them before they even begin. Having the right product by your bedside makes all the difference in the world, and this 150ml bottle of Love Lube Anal Water Based Lubricant is designed specifically to take all of that apprehension away. When you are in this state, your body is in fight or flight mode and then cannot fully relax because it needs to get out of that situation to feel safe. So the blood is being directed to the heart, lungs and brain to keep you above rather than flowing down to the anal area for you to enjoy.
What makes this lube stand out compared to regular daily lubes is the thickness and texture. Standard water-based lubes can sometimes be a bit too runny and dry out fast, but this one has a rich, pillowy cushion that gives you long-lasting glide without any sticky residue. It’s bottled right here in the UK and features a handy flip-cap lid so you can dispense it easily with one hand mid-play without creating a mess.
Crucially, it is infused with gentle natural relaxing properties to help soften the surrounding muscles, without any numbing agents. That is a huge point for me. Numbing sprays or desensitising lubes can be risky because they block your natural pain cues. With Love Lube Anal, you stay in total control of every touch and sensation, and because it is water-based, it is 100% safe to use with all your favourite silicone toys and latex condoms.
My Coaching 'Two-Minute Rule': When it comes to anal exploration, my golden rule is to always use way more lube than you think you need.
Coat both your body and your toy generously. Then, before attempting any insertion, try my two-minute pause: simply place a warm, flat hand gently over the area, close your eyes, and take slow, deep belly exhales. Giving the relaxing ingredients a couple of minutes to absorb allows your pelvic floor and sphincter muscles to soften naturally on their own. You should never force anything, let your body open up at its own pace.
When your body feels safe, guarded tension melts away and you can truly surrender to the deep, pleasurable sensations of the moment.
Most definitely a must-have bottle if you want to explore new realms of intimacy with zero stress and pure comfort!
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Viper Blow Job Masturbator Review – Pulse & Cocktails
I see so many men stuck in the exact same rushed masturbation routine, and bringing a high-tech simulator into the bedroom is all about giving yourself permission to slow down and experience something truly effortless. Darren and I tested out the Viper Blow Job Masturbator, and I have to say, Darren was genuinely blown away by this one (haha no pun intended).
He told me that out of all the similar strokers and simulator toys we’ve tried over the years, this is easily one of the best. Inside the sleek, discreet outer shell is an ultra-soft, lifelike textured sleeve with 3 levels of automated suction and 6 different vibration patterns designed to mimic genuine oral intimacy. The sucking motion is incredible, it creates a realistic, rhythmic vacuum that does all the work for you.
Darren admitted that he originally thought the dedicated "Climax" button function would just be a bit of a gimmick that wouldn't do much, but when he actually used it, he said it was unbelievably good and completely mind-blowing. It kicks the sensations up a gear right when you need it for an intense finish. He said he would definitely recommend it to anyone looking to upgrade their masturbation practice.
Another huge plus point for us is how practical it is to keep clean. A lot of male masturbators on the market are notoriously difficult to wash and dry properly, but with the Viper, you can easily slide the entire inner sleeve right out of the casing. It rinses clean under warm water in seconds and dries without any fuss before you pop it back into its shell.
My Coaching & Sensation Tip: Make sure to be generous with a good water-based lube both inside the textured sleeve and along your shaft before entering as this creates that perfect, airtight vacuum seal, which is where the sensations are felt.
In my coaching practice, so many men suffer from desensitisation or "death grip syndrome" from gripping far too tightly during manual masturbation. My top advice is to let go of control completely. Don't pump your hand up and down, just lie back, take a few deep belly breaths, and let the motorised suction retrain your nervous system to respond to soft, warm, realistic touch. When you don't have to work for your climax, your pelvic floor relaxes and you get a much deeper, whole-body release. This is a game changer when you do that.
If you want an effortless, realistic, and deeply satisfying experience, this is well worth the investment. Darren gives it a massive thumbs up!
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Cupio Remote Controlled Adjustable Love Ring Review – Pulse & Cocktails
If you and your partner are ready to take the performance pressure off and truly share the sensations during intimacy, this little couple's toy is such a fun one to bring into the bedroom. Darren and I decided to give the Cupio Remote Controlled Adjustable Love Ring a go to see how it handled both clitoral stimulation and erection support together.
The ring itself is made from a lovely velvety, body-safe silicone that feels so soft against the skin. It features an adjustable base band to help maintain erection stamina and firmness, a pair of soft, flexible rabbit ears designed to buzz against the clitoris during penetrative sex, and 10 distinct vibration modes. It also comes with a compact wireless remote so you don’t have to fumble around with tiny buttons on the toy itself while you are in the middle of things.
When we tried it out, we both really liked the vibration side of it. The rumbling pulses are strong, and it did indeed make me climax. The motor sends vibrations through both bodies at the same time, which creates such a nice shared buzz. However, during penetrative movement, I did find that the flexible rabbit ears kept slipping off my clitoris, so we had to keep adjusting our angles to keep them sitting right where I needed the stimulation. Even with having to reposition it a bit, the overall pleasure was fantastic and it definitely got the job done. I love the way it looks too and it is easy to use. It's great to have the remote control too as it allows you to both play with it without having to get hands slippery (due to the lube, unless you want that of course).
A Little Tip: Only use a small dab of water-based lube with this one so the band doesn't slide around too much. We used a lot and again it did slide around. Although you can never have enough lube.
In my coaching sessions with couples, the biggest barrier to great sex is often performance anxiety, worrying about lasting longer or whether your partner is enjoying themselves. Handing the wireless remote over to the receiving partner turns the session into a playful, shared game. It takes the pressure off, helps you sync your breathing, and lets you feel that wave of sensation together. This is what we loved about it.
Most definitely worth checking out if you want a playful, adjustable ring that brings extra buzz and shared pleasure to date night.
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Silicone Adjustable Cock Ring Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Darren and I decided to try out the Silicone Adjustable Cock Ring to see how it works for enhancing stamina and keeping that erection firmness. Cock rings are fantastic little tools, whether you want to maintain a harder erection, delay climax, or just feel completely confident in your body’s staying power without any worry.
The design of this ring is lovely. It’s crafted from a velvety, body-safe silicone with a sleek gold slider toggle which I love. What makes it so handy is that it is fully adjustable, unlike standard solid rings that can sometimes feel either too loose or painfully tight, this one lets you decide the exact tension you want. You can loop it around just the base of the erect penis or around the shaft and testicles together, and simply pull the gold slider to create a snug, comfortable hold.
When we tested it out, it definitely worked and gave Darren that great sense of firmness and fullness. However, because we applied quite a lot of lube beforehand, we did find that it kept slipping off during movement. A little bit of lube is great for comfort, but if you put too much on, the smooth silicone and slider can lose their grip and slide down the shaft. Once we wiped away the excess lube and adjusted the toggle again, it stayed in place much better and did the job brilliantly.
A Little Tip: Only use a very small amount of water-based lube when putting this on. Too much moisture makes the silicone extra slippery, which can cause the ring to slide off during play.
In my coaching practice, so many men carry anxiety around losing an erection, and that fear often creates a self-fulfilling loop. Using an adjustable ring like this acts as a gentle physical anchor. It gently traps blood in the erectile tissue, which naturally heightens sensitivity along the shaft and intensifies climax while mentally freeing you up so you can stop stressing, relax your shoulders, and just stay in the moment.
Most definitely worth trying out if you want an easy way to boost your erection and take the pressure off in the bedroom.
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Extra Girth Penis Sleeve Review – Pulse & Cocktails
When it comes to reviewing intimacy products, I always promise to give you my completely honest, real-life thoughts on what works for us and what doesn't. We decided to try out the Extra Girth Penis Sleeve to see if it would add something different to our bedroom antics, especially for anyone looking for extra thickness or a way to help pace their stamina.
The sleeve itself is made from a very stretchy, silky TPE material that pulls on relatively easily once you get going. It has an open-ended tip design so the head of the penis stays uncovered to keep that direct sensation, a textured ribbed fan along the underside, and a built-in loop at the bottom that sits around the base to help hold firmness and keep the sleeve securely in place.
However, when we actually tried it during intercourse, I personally didn't really like it. For my body, it stretched me way too much and created far too much pressure against my vaginal walls, which made it feel uncomfortable rather than pleasurable. Darren liked it a little bit, but he said it felt quite weird for him too because he couldn't feel the whole of me with the thick sleeve sitting in the way.
Every body is completely unique, and while this wasn't the right fit for us, it could be helpful for someone who specifically craves a much fuller sensation or for men who want a buffer on shaft sensitivity to help them last a bit longer without losing feeling at the head.
A Little Tip: If you do decide to try a TPE sleeve like this, you must use generous amounts of water-based lube on both the inside of the sleeve and along the penis before rolling it on! TPE needs plenty of moisture to slide on comfortably and prevent any pulling on the skin.
Remember, great sex isn't about perfection or trying to force every toy to work, it’s all about connection, listening to your body, and finding what truly feels good for you!
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My Wand with 3 Pleasure Heads Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Very Different to anything I've used before
I really like this wand! It is fantastic at making me orgasm, and I love having it for solo play on a quiet evening or for when my husband and I want to add something different.
The first thing I noticed when picking it up was how light and comfortable it is to hold in your hand. Some wands can feel huge and heavy, which ends up giving your arm an ache, but this one is so easy to control. It feels soft and silky to the touch with lovely smooth silicone, and it has simple buttons on the front to flick through the 7 different vibration settings. It also comes with three interchangeable heads that you can pop over the top, plus the smooth base head, which gives you lots of fun variations to play with depending on what you fancy.
The vibrations are a lovely deep rumble rather than a noisy, buzz-like feeling against the skin. I did really like using it and the power behind it is amazing. On the highest setting, it felt really good and powerful, but I did find that it made me go quite numb quite quickly if I kept it on that top speed! Because of that, I preferred keeping it on the lower and medium settings to build up to a really satisfying orgasm without losing my sensitivity.
A Little Tip: Add a good drop of water-based lube, especially when you are popping the different heads on and off so everything glides nicely! My favourite way to use this is to start on your neck, shoulders, and lower back first. Taking the time to relax your body and melt away the day's tension before moving down to your sensitive spots makes the whole experience feel ten times better. It's a great massager too.
Most definitely worth investing in as it gives you so much power and choice all in one sleek toy.
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The Ultimate Guide to Safe Penis Pumps & Vacuum Therapy – Pulse & Cocktails
Restore Your Confidence and Connect with Your Body
If you or your partner have been struggling with erection strength, recovering from surgery, or simply want to maximise performance and sensation, then this is for you. As a sex and somatic coach, I see so many men who feel completely disconnected from their bodies due to erectile dysfunction. But penis pumps aren't just novelties, in clinical and somatic coaching spaces, vacuum therapy tools are highly regarded for physical rehabilitation and intimate wellness.
Medical professionals frequently recommend vacuum therapy after prostate surgery to gently draw oxygenated blood back into the tissue, preventing atrophy and maintaining cellular health. Beyond medical recovery, using a pump right before intimacy is an amazing ritual. By safely drawing blood to the surface, you experience heightened nerve sensitivity and a temporary boost in girth, allowing you to step into your sexual antics feeling incredibly present, full, and confident
4 Distinct Designs: Which One Fits Your Journey?
Pump Type
Automatic Gauge Pump
Bathmate Hydro 7
Enlargement System + Stroker
Classic Pump with Silicone Sleeve
Best For
Progressive training & tracking
Deep relaxation in the bath/shower
Transitioning from therapy
to pleasure
Complete beginners
Standout Feature
Hands-free button
operation with built-in
pressure gauge
Uses warm water pressure
for an ultra-smooth
expansion
2-in-1 design with a swappable, textured
vaginal stroker sleeve
Budget-friendly, manual pump with a soft, stretchy seal
1. The Hands-Free Trainer: Automatic Gauge Penis Pump
If you want to make your routine effortless, this is your best option. It builds steady, progressive vacuum pressure at the press of a single button. The built-in pressure gauge is a brilliant somatic tool—it lets you track your progress safely and scientifically without any risk of over-pumping.
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2. The Ultimate Relaxation Pump: Bathmate Hydro 7
For a deeply soothing experience, the Bathmate utilizes the warm power of water in the bath or shower. Because water pressure is naturally more uniform than air, it creates an incredibly smooth, comfortable expansion that melts away physical tension in your pelvic region.
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3. The Playful Transition: 2-in-1 Enlargement System
If you want to bridge the gap between pelvic therapy and pure pleasure, this manual system is a total gem. It features a controlled hand pump to safely build your erection, and once you're done, you can swap the base ring for a plush, textured vaginal stroker sleeve to transition straight into self-exploration.
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4. The Gentle Entry Point: Penis Pump with Silicone Sleeve
If you’re completely new to pumping and want to dip your toes in safely, this classic manual pump is ideal. It features an incredibly stretchy, soft silicone sleeve at the base that forms a comfortable, airtight seal. It's completely user-controlled and includes a quick-release safety valve for total peace of mind.
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How to use:
Prep with Water-Based Lube: Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to your skin and the inner rim of the silicone sleeve. This protects delicate tissue and ensures a perfect, airtight seal.
- Pump Slowly & Mindfully: Begin drawing a vacuum. Stop as soon as you feel a snug tugging sensation—pumping should never hurt! If you feel any pinching or discomfort, hit the quick-release valve immediately to drop the pressure.
- Set a Timer (Max 15 Minutes): Keep your sessions to a maximum of 15 minutes, 3 to 5 times a week. This gives the delicate blood vessels plenty of time to rest, heal, and adapt.
- Lock in the Blood Flow: Once you release the vacuum, slide a soft cock ring to the very base of your penis. This gently keeps the pooled blood in the tissue, prolonging your firmness for shared play or self-pleasure.
- When you start using a pump, completely ignore the measurement markings on the side of the cylinder at first! Instead, focus entirely on how your body feels. Pay attention to the warmth of the blood flow and the physical expansion, and take slow, deep breaths to keep your nervous system beautifully calm and receptive.
Passion Play Wearable Panty Vibrator Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Own Your Secret and Heighten the Thrill
Imagine sitting at a crowded restaurant on a date, completely composed on the outside, while experiencing a wave of intense, secret pleasure that nobody else in the room has any clue about! That is exactly the kind of cheeky, erotic anticipation this clever little toy brings into your love life and we did exactly that one our date night. It was so intense.
The Passion Play Wearable Panty Vibrator is an ultra-discreet, contoured clitoral toy designed to fit snugly against your vulva. What makes it so brilliant is the magnetic backing, you simply place the smooth vibrator inside your underwear and snap the magnetic clip onto the outside of the fabric. It sandwiches your knickers so securely that it stays locked right in place, no matter where you are walking or sitting. It feels soft to the touch with a silky, skin-safe feel to it, and it has a lovely low-profile, flat design so it won't show through your clothes.
Don't let the small size fool you either. It is small but incredibly intense! It was quite intense for me even on the lowest setting but it was a good intense. There are 28 distinct vibration modes ranging from subtle, gentle purrs to deep, rumbling pulses depending on the intensity you set. The best part though It’s whisper-quiet, so you don't have to worry about anyone hearing a thing. we we're in quite a busy restaurant and no one could hear anything. Darren was close to me and he couldn't hear it. It’s fully USB rechargeable and comes with a compact wireless remote control that lets you, or your partner, instantly dictate the rhythm from across the room. Darren had the remote for most of the evening and that built the intense pressure up for me to climax almost immediately when we got home.
In my coaching sessions, I always remind clients that the brain is our largest sexual organ. Half the pleasure of intimacy doesn't come from direct physical touch, it comes from anticipation and that's exactly where were were with this.
My top tip with this toy is to embrace the art of edging. Hand the remote over to your partner while you are out for dinner or watching a show. Have them turn the vibrations on for just 30 seconds at a time, and then switch it off right as the sensation starts to peak. Building that teasing, erotic tension forces you out of your head, heightens your physical senses, and turns an ordinary evening into an absolute thrill.
This is such an amazing way to bring a bit of playful submission, dominant control, and secret excitement into your relationship. It keeps you completely anchored in the present moment and gives a totally different build-up compared to standard hand-held toys.
Most definitely worth investing in if you want to spice up your date nights and heighten the thrill. I for one am hooked! and will be using it a lot more.
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Mr Play Remote Control Thrusting & Vibrating Butt Plug Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Surrender to Deep, Hands-Free Pleasure!
Sometimes Darren and I love bringing new dynamic elements into our bedroom play, and if you are an intermediate to advanced user looking to take your anal exploration to the next level, this toy is an absolute dream! The Mr Play Remote Control Thrusting & Vibrating Butt Plug is specifically designed to give you that deep, elevated sensation without any of the awkward manual effort. If I am being honest and I am always honest with reviews, Darren and I didn't like it and we don't tend to like anal play but that's not to say that you wont like it.
The first thing I noticed when holding it was how thoughtfully shaped it is. It’s made from a velvety, body-safe silicone that feels so smooth to the touch, with a tapered tip that makes insertion feel effortless and natural. It features a beautifully textured, ribbed shaft that adds a fuller feel, alongside a super sturdy suction base at the bottom. What really makes this piece stand out is the wireless remote. It drives four distinct vibration patterns and four thrusting speeds completely independently, so you can mix and match the sensations depending on what you’re craving.
I recommended this to one to my client and they thought it was a complete game-changer. The thrusting motion creates such a unique, deep internal friction that feels entirely different from a standard static plug. You aren't stuck holding a toy awkwardly in position, you can just lean back, breathe through it, and let the motor do all the work for you.
My Expert Coaching & Couple's Tip: Because the anus doesn't lubricate naturally, my non-negotiable rule is to always use copious amounts of a good water-based lube on both your body and the plug before you begin. Pulse and Cocktails have a lot of different ones to find your needs. Start nice and slow by using the gentler vibration settings to warm up your muscles first before activating the thrusting.
For couples, try sticking the strong suction base onto a smooth surface, or hand the wireless remote over to your partner. Letting them control the thrusting rhythms and vibration speeds takes all the pressure off you, allowing your nervous system to relax your sphincter muscles completely and stay 100% present in the moment.
Whether you’re exploring solo on a quiet evening or handing the remote over to your partner during date night to add an extra layer of tease and intrigue, this toy maximises pleasure by letting you surrender entirely to the feeling.
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Love Lube Sensual Water Based Lubricant (250ml) – Review – Pulse & Cocktails
You certainly need this in your life
If there is one absolute, non-negotiable rule I give my clients when it comes to sex, toy play, or navigating intimate dryness, it’s this: never skimp on the lube. Always add loads to your play. We certainly do at home. The wetter the better. Adding lubrication isn’t something to reach for only when you need it, it is honestly one of the most loving, practical things you can do for your body to enhance pleasure.
In my coaching practice, I see so many individuals and couples struggling unnecessarily with friction, discomfort, tearing amongst other things. Whether you are navigating perimenopause or menopause (I'm peri menopause) this is where shifting hormone levels naturally cause vaginal dryness, working through Erectile Dysfunction, exploring anal play, or simply wanting to get the most out of your self pleasure toy sessions, a good water-based lube is a game-changer. It reduces friction, prevents delicate micro-tears, keeps latex condoms safe from breaking, and allows you to feel all the gorgeous sensations without any raw irritation and I am in love with this one.
This 250ml Love Lube Sensual Water Based Lubricant is a absolute dream to use. It’s a beautifully lightweight, ultra-smooth formula that glides over the skin effortlessly. Because it’s water-based, it is 100% compatible with your natural body bacteria, all latex condoms, and every silicone toy in your collection. It gives you a long-lasting, reliable glide without leaving any stickiness behind, and it rinses away easily with just warm water.
Stop waiting until you feel dry or uncomfortable to apply your lube. I always say communication is lubrication and the more you communicate how you want to be touched and how much lube you want to use it is a game changer. Instead, bring it right into the very beginning of your foreplay or solo touch ritual. Always warm a couple of pumps in your hands and massage it onto your partner or yourself as part of the intimate foreplay. Making lube a non negotiable and part of your touch signals to your nervous system that it’s time to relax, helping your body stay completely calm and relaxed and giving you so many more sensations.
This is a must to have on your bedside table or drawer.
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Love Toys Antibacterial Sex Toy Cleaner (150ml) – Review – Pulse & Cocktails
An Essential Part of Your Intimate Self-Care Routine
Did you know that 1 in 5 people admit they don’t actually clean their sex toys? We need to talk about this, because skipping this step is a massive risk to your intimate wellness. As a sex and relationship coach, I always tell my clients that practising good hygiene with your toys is just as crucial as protecting your physical body. When left unwashed, toys become a breeding ground where bacteria, viruses, and fungi rapidly build up. This drastically increases your risk of developing uncomfortable conditions like bacterial vaginosis, yeast infections, and painful UTIs.
Worse still, if you are sharing your toys with a partner or switching between different types of play during a single session, unwashed toys can easily transmit or cross-contaminate STIs right back into your system. That’s why having a proper, dedicated cleaner like the Love Toys Antibacterial Sex Toy Cleaner in your bedside drawer is a total must! It’s a gentle, highly effective 150ml spray solution specially formulated to protect your intimate health while extending the lifespan of your favourite silicone, ABS, and rubber toys by preventing that stubborn build-up. I have been using it all the time now instead of using soap and water. It's been a complete game changer and it also smells really nice too.
It is so simple and quick to use in three easy steps:
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Spray directly onto the toy: Give your toy a generous coating of the antibacterial solution, ensuring you cover every single ridge, seam, or textured detail.
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Let it sit for 2 minutes: This step is crucial for killing microbes. Giving it those two full minutes allows the antibacterial agents the necessary time to fully break down and eliminate any stubborn pathogens.
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Wipe down with a clean cloth: Take a fresh, lint-free cloth and thoroughly wipe away any remaining liquid, then let it air dry completely before storing it safely in a breathable pouch or its original packaging. You can still leave it to dry on the bedside table or even on the kitchen drainer.
When I tell my clients to clean their toys, they say its really rather boring and so I have said lets try and reframe this and make it a non-negotiable part of your self-care ritual, straight after using it or wash it off in the shower like you do with yourself. Think of it that it will help you to not get and pass on bacterial vaginosis, or STI's or thrush.
I highly recommend this to you.
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Suck My Clit Clitoral Suction Effect Gel – Review – Pulse & Cocktails
A Total Revelation for Your Foreplay Routine!
If you want to experience a completely new type of physical sensation without even using a single toy, you have got to try this little bottle! The 'Suck My Clit' Clitoral Suction Effect Gel by intt is a revolutionary, water-based arousal formula designed to layer warmth, gentle pulsations, and a vibration-like flutter directly onto your skin. It comes in a lovely compact bottle and you can get it in either tropical mango or wild strawberry. I tried the wild strawberry and the tropical mango and the smell is delicious!
I am however not keen on the tingling sensations it gave me. It was too hot for my liking and I wasn't sure on the actual feeling of it. It does though do what it says. It does feel like someone is actually sucking your clitoris and also it certainly does feel like its pulsating and using a vibration on it when actually there isn't anything else there other than the actual liquid itself. It does however have a beautiful smell on both of them and I'm sure you will like it more than me. I have never liked the tingling ones from Durex as I find them to burning and I used to suffer with cystitis and so it slightly triggers me for that. But if you like those tingling sensation lubes etc then by all means give this one a go.
It has a lightweight, silky clear texture that isn't sticky at all and spreads beautifully along the vulva and clitoris. When you apply directly over the clitoris, it takes away the physical pressure entirely and gets to work on the 10,000 nerve endings in the vulva. Within a minute or two, a triple-action sensation builds up, starting with a soft tingle, turning into a warming sensation, and then shifting into a warm, drawing, pulsing suction. It feels so weird but different. It’s fantastic for self pleasure, spicing up foreplay or oral play with your partner, or layering right underneath your favourite vibrator for an extra boost which I did try but it made the burning sensation stronger.
I recommended this to one of my clients and told her that when you apply this gel, resist the urge to immediately start using your fingers or a toy. Instead, close your eyes, take a few slow, deep breaths, and practice mindfully tuning in to where you feel the sensations. Focus entirely on that exact moment the soft tingle shifts into that warm, pulsing suction. It is such a beautiful practice for staying anchored in the present moment, lowering your stress, and bringing on that amazing orgasm! And that it does, bring on that amazing orgasm.
You only need a small amount as a little really does go a long way. Just a single pump on a clean finger is more than enough to get everything going. It’s a wonderful, non-intimidating way to encourage your body to soften, open up, and experience an organic wave of arousal.
I highly recommend adding this to your bedroom ritual to bring a bit of luxury into your space. It's well worth having in your bedside drawer if you like the heat sensations.
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Delight Suction Stim Vibrator – Blue - Review - Pulse and Cocktails
Absolute Bliss!!
This toy is another one at making me orgasm! The Delight Suction Stim Vibrator is a total game-changer for anyone who wants a deeply versatile tool to help them slow down, explore their body, and tap into two entirely different types of physical release. It is shaped in a gorgeous blue colour and made from a silky, body-safe silicone that feels so soft to the touch when brushing fingers over it, but it’s hard and firm where it needs to be. It features a brilliant dual-ended design that combines gentle clitoral airwave suction on one end with a firmly sculpted, curved G-spot massager on the other. The G-spot massager always makes me climax.
The sensations it gives are amazing with 6 rumbly vibration modes to choose from depending on the intensity you set it at. On the clitoral end, the added airwave technology gives soft, fluttery air pulses that feel cool and rhythmic around the clitoris, mimicking an oral-like sensation against the vulval tissue. On the other end, the curved shaft targets the G-spot for a deep tissue massage. I’ve never felt something like this from a toy before! It is chargeable via USB and shaped in a way for total ease and comfort. It gives a completely different orgasm compared to when I use fingers or other single-action toys.
Whether you are using it for self pleasure or in the bed next to your partner to spice up your sexual play, this toy completely maximises pleasure. It’s fantastic for couples because one partner can control the vibration modes internally while focusing on manual stimulation, or you can use the airwave cup on the clitoris during penetration to take the pressure off and anchor you both in the moment. It’s such a great way to build communication and break up boredom in the bedroom!
A Little Tip: Always use a generous amount of water-based lube with this one. Because it’s crafted from smooth silicone, the lube helps keep everything feeling slick and helps you get that perfect, airtight seal for the airwave suction.
As with all Pulse & Cocktails products, it arrives very beautifully packaged and completely discreetly as well, which is good for those of you who don’t want to share your wears with the postie.
Most definitely worth investing in as it will give you so much intense pleasure and help you honor your body's desires. I for one am hooked!
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Buzz Vibe Clitoral Massager - Review - Pulse and Cocktails
Small, Sleek, Cute and Seriously Powerful.
Don’t let the size of this one fool you. The Buzz Vibe might be a compact 4.5 inches, but it really does work when it comes to focused, rhythmic pleasure. It’s made from a gorgeous, velvety, body-safe silicone that feels incredibly silky and soft against the skin, and a huge bonus for the colder months, it warms up quickly in your hand with contact. It has a lovely ergonomic curved shape that sits so naturally and comfortably in your palm, meaning you can easily use it one-handed without your fingers getting tired, which is a huge bonus in my eyes.
I love the colours of the black and yellow and the way it feels against my skin.
What makes this toy stand out is the brilliant circular stimulation zone. It is designed to fit so snugly right over the clitoris, focusing every single pulse exactly where it counts and it really does do that. There are 5 distinct pulsation modes to play with, starting with slow, teasing waves and moving into stronger, more insistent rhythms that build up to a serious intensity. The easy-access button controls mean you can smoothly step through the modes without breaking your flow or fumbling mid-play.
My Top Tip: Since this cute little bee is crafted from skin-soft silicone, you’ll definitely want to pair it with a good quality water-based lube. It keeps everything feeling incredibly slick and heightens the sensations beautifully.
This is such a versatile little vibe. It’s perfect for focused solo sessions when you want a quiet evening to yourself, but it’s also fantastic to bring into bed for couple's play to add that extra external clitoral stimulation during sex. It’s a great choice for slow foreplay, teasing, or getting you over the edge when you're already close. It has a 60-minute use from a single USB charge which is amazing, and because it’s so neat and travel-friendly, you can easily pop it into your bag without any bulk. It can also just sit on the bedside table in prime position because it does look like a little ornament.
As always, coming from Pulse and Cocktails, it arrives at your door in completely plain packaging, so no one knows what you have ordered.
I absolutely love it.
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Joy Vibe G-Spot Pleaser - Review - Pulse and Cocktails
Oh My Goodness, This is a Game Changer.
This toy is incredible at making me orgasm and feel all the feels straight away. It feels soft to the touch like a silky feel to it when brushing fingers over it, but it’s hard and firm. The shaft has a gentle curve that glides in easily, and it features a bulbed tip that is shaped to target exactly the G-area. There are also rippled ridges along the body which add a lovely texture and a fuller feel against the vaginal walls. There are quite a few variations you can use, with 7 vibration patterns and 3 G-area stimulation modes depending on the intensity you set it at. The sensations it gives are incredible with different wave patterns and different rhythms. I love this about this specific one.
This is great if you are practising to squirt and can use it to help you get there. It relaxes you even more and when you feel like the sensation is getting too much, stop using the vibro and let it flow. Bear down and go for it. By using copious amounts of lube and on the ridges of the vibro, it will certainly start you off the right way.
I love the purple colour and the way it is shaped. It is splash-proof which is a bonus for the bath or shower, and it is chargeable via USB which is great. It’s very quiet too, barely a murmur until you’re very glad it’s on, so you can just relax. Because some of these vibrators can be quite noisy. This is a great toy for solo masturbation or mutual masturbation or couple play. The buttons are easy to use and to switch to different vibration modes. The end where the ridges are, feels weird when you touch it with your fingers but when its inside you , it gives such an incredible pleasure as it mimics a finger. Such a clever idea.
Little Tip: It’s made from silicone, and I use a water-based lube with it. Because of the rippled texture along the body, the lube helps it glide in well and makes it feel very smooth. Warm it up in your hands before you start as that will make it feel warm inside.
I absolutely love the packaging from Pulse and Cocktails. Very beautifully packaged and arrived discreetly as well, which is good for those of you who don’t want to share your wears with the neighbours.
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Thumper Rabbit Thrusting Vibrator - Review - Pulse and Cocktails
Thumper Rabbit Thrusting Vibrator - Review - Pulse and Cocktails
Incredible is the only word for this…
This toy is incredible at making me orgasm. Not only from the clitoris but also from the G area. This isn’t just your standard vibration, it actually thrusts for you, which gives a completely different sensation compared to other toys I've used. It feels so soft to the touch with a gorgeous, velvety matte finish when brushing your fingers over it, but the body-safe silicone is hard and firm. The shaft has a gentle curve that glides in so easily, and it features a pronounced tip that is shaped to target the G-area. There are also three rippled rings along the shaft which add a lovely texture and a fuller feel with every single thrust. At 6 inches, it’s a confident size but shaped in a way for ease and comfort, and the silicone warms up quickly against your skin. I also love the colour as its warm and inviting.
The sensations it gives are absolutely amazing with different wave patterns and different vibrations depending on the intensity you set it at. The flexible rabbit arm nestles beautifully against the clitoris and runs through 7 vibration patterns, while the shaft handles 3 thrusting speeds completely independently. You can use the push-button panel to choose which to have, so you can build up slowly or go straight to the deep thrust. When both motors are running together, the internal fullness combined with the external teasing is fantastic. It gives a completely mind-blowing blended orgasm!
A Little Tip: With this, I would just let the vibro do the work for you because that’s what it is there for. Just ride the waves and pulsations it gives you. It’s also really good if you have tight pelvic floors or need to tighten them up as it stimulates the blood vessels.
I love setting aside a chilled evening in bed to just relax and let the toy do all the moving for me. It’s also great for couples if you want to add a bit of hands-free thrusting into your shared play to spice up your sex life. The push buttons are very easy to use to cycle through the modes without breaking your energetic flow.
The packaging is always discreet with Pulse and Cocktails.
Most definitely worth investing in as it will give you so much intense pleasure. It’s easily become a firm favourite for me that gets you exactly where you want to be. I for one am so excited to keep using this one.
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Humming Bird Dual Vibrator – Review - Pulse and Cocktails
Double the Trouble, Double the Pleasure
This little toy is absolutely incredible at targeting all the right spots at the same time. It has a gorgeous, silky smooth feel to it when you run your fingers over the body safe silicone, but it’s firm enough to really get into position. What I love about the Humming Bird is the unique dual action shape. It sits so naturally and comfortably right in the palm of your hand, with a gently curved shaft that reaches the G-area internally while the flexible little arm presses beautifully against the clitoris. It is just so simple to position.
The sensations it gives are amazing. There are 12 different vibration modes to choose from, starting with a soft, smooth, barely there pulse and moving into deep, rumbling sensations that really build up the intensity. If you run both ends together, it gives you a completely mind-blowing blended orgasm, but you can also just use the clitoral arm on its own if you want focused external stimulation. I’ve even tried it for a bit of nipple and body play during foreplay with my husband, and it works a treat.
A Little Tip: Because it’s made from high quality silicone, make sure you only use a good water-based lube with it to keep it in tip-top condition.
One of the best things about this toy is how whisper quiet it is. It’s barely a murmur, so you don't have to worry about anyone hearing anything. It’s also splashproof, which is a massive bonus for those who like to take their toys into the bath or shower for a bit of solo wet fun. It’s chargeable via USB, and because it’s so neat and compact, it’s the perfect little addition to pack into your overnight bag for a weekend away.
As always with Pulse and Cocktails, it arrives in beautifully discreet packaging, so you don’t have to worry about sharing your bedroom wares with the postman or your neighbours.
Whether you are looking to upgrade from a basic single action vibrator, want to spice up your couple's play, or are chasing that hard to reach blended orgasm, this is most definitely worth investing in. It’s easily become a firm favourite that I reach for first. I for one am hooked.
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Opal Dream Suction Stim Vibe - Review - Pulse and Cocktails
Opal Dream Suction Stim Vibe - Review - Pulse and Cocktails
Absolute Bliss!
I am completely blown away by this stunning little toy. It is an absolute dream for hitting all the right spots at once. It is shaped in a gorgeous ombré of pinks, purples, and blues, and it looks like a beautiful jewel-toned gem. It feels so soft to the touch like a silky feel to it when brushing fingers over it, but the body-safe silicone is hard and firm, just like I like my vibro’s to be.
It has a fantastic ergonomic C-shape that allows for a totally hands-free experience, which is great for ease and comfort. One arm of the toy is perfectly curved to nestle into your G-area, while the other arm cradles the clitoris to give you that amazing dual stimulation internally and externally at the same time which I love.
The sensations it gives are absolutely incredible with different wave patterns and different vibrations depending on the intensity you set it at. The clitoral arm uses added airwave technology which is fantastic as I’ve used a few of them before and love the feeling. When the air pulse is on, it mimics a soft, rhythmic oral stimulation that feels amazing against the vulval tissue and clitoris. The internal shaft has 10 rumbly vibration modes that send deep sensations exactly where you want them. I’ve never felt something like this from a toy before. You can easily control it using the intuitive buttons, and it even has a cute glittering gemstone button which I love. When running both together, it gives a completely different orgasm compared to when I use fingers or other toys. This is a great combination from a toy.
A Little Tip: If you’ve never used airwave vibro’s before, start on the lowest setting first to let your body get used to the sensation. It mimics oral sex so well, and building up the intensity slowly will give you an even more mind-blowing orgasm. Enjoy.
I love trying this out for a long, unhurried evening in bed to just allow the vibrations to be felt all over my body and to fall asleep and dream. It’s also completely chargeable via USB which is a massive bonus. It’s a very sensual toy, and I would highly recommend this to spice up your sex life or just to feel deeply connected to your own body-rocking bliss.
I love the packaging with this one and as always it arrived in a discreet package.
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Handheld Max Suction Clitoral Vibrator - Review - AvidLovePlay
Handheld Max Suction Clitoral Vibrator - Review - AvidLovePlay
I am absolutely loving this gorgeous purple suction vibe. It is a total game-changer for anyone wanting a slower, deeper build-up to their pleasure. Instead of the usual small designs, this one features a larger, well-balanced handle that offers a very secure grip for ease and comfort. The hole at the top which fits over the hood of the clitoris is brilliant, with a wide 24mm opening that targets the vulval tissue perfectly without pinching. It uses a clever, push-and-pull technology that doesn't just suck constantly, it actually draws you in and then gently releases in a rhythmic cycle that feels completely natural.
I’ve never felt something like this from a toy before. The sensations it gives are amazing, with 3 different intensity levels depending on what you set it at. What I love most is that the suction doesn't just hit an instant peak and make you go numb. It builds up beautifully over 2 to 3 minutes, making it a much more immersive experience that leaves you ready to go again and again. It is chargeable via USB and is waterproof.
A Little Tip: The handle is very comfortable to hold, but when using it, I found that gripping the base of the toy instead helps you press the suction head more firmly against your skin. It gives you much better control over the angle and pressure to get that perfect, airtight seal.
It is very quiet, so you can fully unwind without any annoying buzz in the background. As with all their products, it arrives beautifully packaged and completely discreet.
This is available from Avidloveplay.
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OTOUCH Magic Stick S1 Plus – Four-Attachment Rabbit Vibrator - Review - AvidLovePlay
OTOUCH Magic Stick S1 Plus – Four-Attachment Rabbit Vibrator - Review - AvidLovePlay
This is such an incredible toy. The first thing I noticed about this award-winning rabbit vibrator was how incredibly high quality, soft, and silky the medical-grade silicone feels against my skin. It has a gorgeously curved shaft with a great sliding external arm, giving it a great look right out of the box.
My husband and I have been exploring this one, and the versatility is completely mind-blowing. What sets it apart from others is that it comes with 4 interchangeable, patented DIY heads. Instead of being stuck with just one sensation, you can literally slide different attachments on and off mid play to explore everything from steady, grounding pulses to fluttering, rotating, or deep-rolling pressure. I particularly liked the roller attachment as it felt very different compared to others I have tried. It is like having four different toys in one.
The main body features 3 thrusting speeds and 4 frequency patterns, while the attachments carry their own built-in motors with multiple frequency levels. This means you get a massive combination of dual-stimulation modes to customise. My husband and I love using it for couple's foreplay where he can swap the heads to surprise me, building up lots of anticipation. It is also waterproof, making it fantastic and safe for a fun shower or self care routine in the bath.
Why I Recommend This
Prioritising your pleasure with a great toy like this is an amazing form of meditation that grounds you, quiets a busy mind, and builds deep confidence. Climaxing releases oxytocin, dopamine, and endorphins, leaving us feeling completely calm and regulated. The post-climax release of prolactin acts as a gentle sedative, helping you bypass busy thoughts for deeper sleep. It’s a form of meditation that grounds you, quiets the mind, and builds confidence. Regular arousal also increases vascular health in the pelvic region, promoting tissue health and natural lubrication. Think of self-pleasure as a vital nervous system reset. When we prioritise our pleasure, we become more resilient versions of ourselves.
Because this features a sliding outer arm and interchangeable heads, it is also a fantastic for exploring and keeping the body calm and in the parasympathetic nervous system. You can start with the absolute gentlest clitoral head and adjust the insertion depth with complete precision, allowing you to prioritise your absolute comfort and take things entirely at your own pace.
This is available from Avidloveplay.
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Sheer Mesh Trim Underwire Bra Panty Set - Review - AvidLove
Sheer Mesh Trim Underwire Bra Panty Set - Review - AvidLove
This is such a beautiful set. The first thing I noticed about this was the contrast between the delicate, apricot mesh and the black floral lace. It is crafted from an incredibly lightweight, good stretchy fabric that feels beautifully soft and silky against the skin, making it just as comfortable as it is appealing.
The underwire bra top is designed to highlight and support your breasts. It has fully adjustable shoulder straps. The matching thong mirrors that beautiful lace look, creating a gorgeous, style that adds the perfect amount of tease and intrigue to the bedroom.
The fabric has stretch that hugs your body without feeling pinching or restrictive at all like some bras sets do. This is exactly what you want when you want to feel confident, relaxed, and gorgeous.
Why I Recommend This
Because the fabric is so soft to the touch, and the adjustable straps and stretchy thong ensure there is no tight, digging pressure around the pelvic region, allowing you to prioritise your comfort, feel incredibly beautiful, and focus entirely on relaxation and feeling sexy at your own pace.
This beautiful bra and panty set is available from Avidlove.
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Lace Sheer Long Sleeve Bodysuit - Review - AvidLove
Lace Sheer Long Sleeve Bodysuit - Review - AvidLove
This is such a beautiful bodysuit and I absolutely love wearing it. The first thing I noticed about this body suit was how incredibly soft, skin friendly, and silky the lace fabric feels against my skin. It features a gorgeous, deep sweetheart neckline corset style lacing down the front that creates an utterly beautiful silhouette. I really like the frilly shoulders where there is extra lace as it gives a more feminine look to it.
The long sleeves feature a stunning floral lace pattern that runs all the way down, while the back cut to highlight your curves. It even has clever snap buttons at the base (like a baby bodysuit), making it super easy to wear. I have worn it in the bedroom to add an element of tease and intrigue, and also paired it with my favorite jeans for a date night look. I do feel sexy and powerful wearing this.
The material is made from a high quality blend of 85% Polyester and 15% Spandex, as it gives it just the right amount of stretch. It hugs my body perfectly in a slim fit without feeling restrictive or tight at all, which is exactly what you want when you want to feel confident and gorgeous.
Why I Recommend This
Because it makes you feel so sexy and beautiful on a date night or even paired with smart trousers and a blazer.
This beautiful sheer bodysuit is available from Avidlove.
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Ice Silk High Slit Long Nightdress - Review - AvidLove
Ice Silk High Slit Long Nightdress - Review - AvidLove
This is such a beautiful nightdress. The first thing I noticed about this piece was how incredibly lightweight, breathable, and silky the ice silk fabric feels against my skin. It has a gorgeous, fluid drape that glides on so easily, and the delicate lace detailing at the bust with spaghetti straps makes it feel utterly luxurious the moment you put it on.
I love that its such a beautiful piece and so romantic. I love the high side slit that moves beautifully as you walk, and it gives just the right amount of tease and intrigue in the bedroom. It comes in gorgeous, colours like a rich wine red, deep black (which I have), and a beautiful camel colour.
The ice silk fabric is great because it keeps you feeling cool and fresh all night long especially in the summer months. It feels entirely weightless and smooth to the touch, which is exactly what you want when you are winding down after a long day and focusing on your relaxation.
Why I Recommend This
Because this gown is made from a stretchy, fluid blend of polyester and spandex with a loose-flowing fit, it is also a fantastic if you you are currently working through vaginismus, cystitis, pelvic floor tension or just need to air your genitals and feel no pressure down there. its very comfortable and feels great against my skin.
This stunning ice silk nightdress is available from AvidLove.
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Satin Belted Robe with Contrast Lace Trim - Review - AvidLove
Satin Belted Robe with Contrast Lace Trim - Review - AvidLove
I absolutely love this robe. It's so gorgeous and elegant. The first thing I noticed about this piece was how smooth, fluid, and silky the satin fabric feels against my skin. It features an incredibly flattering V-neck panel and a belted waist that cinches beautifully, while the contrast lace trim running along the wide bell sleeves and cuffs adds the perfect touch of delicate romance. It's very much like a kimono style robe with wide sleeves and lace trailing along the length of the robe.
My husband and I love adding beautiful loungewear like this to our evenings to bring a sense of luxury, ease, and flirtation to the bedroom. It is designed with a lovely, loose fit and elegant long flowing sleeves that glide effortlessly as you move. Whether you wear it open over your favorite lingerie to add an element of tease and intrigue, or tie the belt tight for a cozy, unhurried night in, it feels completely decadent. It comes in stunning jewel tones like dark green and wine red, as well as classic black and white, making it a gorgeous addition to any collection. I have the dark green as I love green because of its natural and calming tones.
The material is incredibly soft to the touch with a subtle, rich sheen that catches the light beautifully. It is light, breathable, and doesn't feel constricting at all, which is exactly what you want when you are winding down and focusing on relaxation.
Why I Recommend This
Prioritising your comfort and winding down with a luxurious ritual like slipping into a beautiful robe after a warm bath or shower is an amazing form of meditation that grounds you and quiets a busy mind. Taking the time to transition out of your day and into a space of comfort helps reset your nervous system, allowing you to bypass racing thoughts for a deeper, more restful sleep. When we slow down, lower our stress, and focus on feeling good in our own skin, we become more resilient and confident versions of ourselves.
Because this piece is a loose, fluid wrap robe, it is also a fantastic, completely non-intimidating choice if you are currently working through vaginismus or pelvic floor tension. There is absolutely no pressure or tightness around the pelvic region, allowing you to prioritise your comfort, feel incredibly beautiful, and focus entirely on relaxation at your own pace.
This elegant satin robe is available from Avidlove.
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Sxey - Unlock your senses with intimate perfumed oils - Review
Sxey - Unlock your senses with intimate perfumed oils - Review
I am so in love with these amazing intimate oils from Sxey. When was the last time you truly honoured your own femininity?
I talk a lot about confidence, relationships, and the importance of self-love, but true confidence starts with how you feel when the world isn't watching. It’s about feeling beautiful in your own skin, and yes, feeling even better naked.
I’ve just been sent some exquisite products from Sxey, and I am in love with their mission.
They aren’t just perfumed oils, they are a ritual designed by women, for women, to help us unlock our most 100% unapologetic selves. There are 6 different fragrances in total.
One of my favourites is Dating Queen for a confidence boost. It’s a stunning blend of Rose and Cassis that honestly makes you feel like a Queen meaning you are irresistible to anyone.
I used Control Lost on my legs when I had some dry skin after shaving and it sunk in beautifully. The smell is delicious. It has hints of pear, fig and cedar smoke and the smell lasted hours on my skin. My husband kept saying I smelt good throughout the day, so that's a win win. This is also great for when you want to feel empowered. I also used it on my neck when I had an important meeting to attend. It made me feel so confident and that I could achieve anything.
The others are:
Peach me Up which has hints of Peach, Pineapple, Apple blossom, Nectarine, Jasmine, Rose and Cassis. This is great for a self care evening or a romantic evening which your partner.
Call Tomorrow which has hints of Black Currant, Pear, Iris, Jasmine, Praline, Vanilla, Patchouli and Tonka. This is great for when you want some self confidence.
Undress Me which has hints of Bergamot, Melon, Jasmine, Lily-of-the-Valley, Rose, Plum, Blackberry and Musk. This is great for when you want to feel your best during your sensual or erotic encounters with your partner.
Stay the Night which has hints of Pink Pepper, Pear, Almond, Jasmine, Vanilla, Patchouli, Cedarwood, Coconut and Musk This is great for feeling confident and making that lasting impression.
We often rush through our days, but taking a moment to use a dropper bottle, to massage a scent into our skin, and to connect with our bodies changes our frequency.
Whether you’re heading into a high-stakes meeting or a romantic date night, these oils move with your mood and your body.
It’s time to stop waiting for special occasions to feel sexy.
You are the special occasion.
I highly recommend these products to feel empowered, amazing, strong, sensual and so much more.
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CBD Hybrid Lube & Massage Oil Bundle - Review – Pulse & Cocktails
CBD Hybrid Lube & Massage Oil Bundle - Review – Pulse & Cocktails
I am in love with the CBD lube and massage oil.
CBD Hybrid Lube
This CBD lube is incredible at opening blood vessels within the genitals. We loved the silky texture. It’s a white substance that turns clear on skin or toys. It’s thicker than other lubes with a wonderful sweet and lemongrass scent. Having tried many lubes, this is high on our list.
Applied to my vulva, it gave a pleasant warming sensation. When my husband blew on it, it created a tingle. It works well with silicone toys, providing a nice feel. Two pumps were more than enough for our entire session. It isn’t sticky and glides easily. I also love the gold and black 100ml bottle.
I highly recommend this for dryness, vaginismus, tight pelvic floor muscles, or stress during penetration. It helps open blood vessels and relax muscles, allowing nerves to function so you feel calm. It keeps you in the parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest) rather than the sympathetic (fight or flight). Since we hold stress in the pelvic floor, this relaxation leads to a better sexual experience. The CBD wakes up the nerves for increased arousal and natural lubrication. Its anti-inflammatory properties also calm localized swelling and act as natural pain relief. This lube is nontoxic and unlike some others it is condom compatible.
CBD Hybrid Massage Oil
This oil is fantastic and doesn’t disappoint. It’s great for aching muscles, especially tight shoulders and the lower back. The CBD active ingredients help blood flow and provide anti-inflammatory properties that aid cell regeneration.
The oil isn't sticky, rubs in well, and a small amount goes a long way. It has the same easy pump action and a beautiful scent of lemon, ginger, and olive fruit. It isn’t overpowering and sinks in well, leaving skin soft rather than oily. I highly recommend this for an intimate regime or to relieve general aches and pains.
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Sliding Skin Realistic Dong With Balls 8.5 Inch - Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Sliding Skin Realistic Dong With Balls 8.5 Inch - Review – Pulse & Cocktails
The Wellbeing Benefits of Self-Pleasure
My husband and I have been testing this realistic dildo and really enjoying it. Compared to others, it features "sliding skin" that mimics human physiology. The inner shaft is firm, but the realistic skin and veins over the top make it feel like a real penis during penetration.
The realistic head feels great internally, inserting it just 3-4 inches will heighten and activate the 10,000+ nerves located there. We both like the feel and the generous 7.5-inch insertable length. When combined with a high-quality lubricant, especially a CBD lube for relaxation, the experience is enhanced.
While the testicles don't move as much as expected, there is good sensation during penetration. The suction pad is excellent for the shower or bath, as it is 100% waterproof. Due to its girth, I recommend slow, mindful penetration. It can feel cold initially, so I suggest warming it in water first. It is also harness-compatible.
Why I recommend this. This is perfect for solo or partnered play to add tease and intrigue. However, if you are working through vaginismus or pelvic floor tension, this model may be too advanced, I’d suggest starting with something more slender to prioritise comfort.
Climaxing releases oxytocin, dopamine, and endorphins, leaving us feeling calm and regulated. The post-climax release of prolactin acts as a gentle sedative, helping you bypass busy thoughts for deeper sleep. It’s a form of meditation that grounds you, quiets the mind, and builds confidence. Regular arousal also increases vascular health in the pelvic region, promoting tissue health and natural lubrication. Think of self-pleasure as a nervous system reset. When we prioritise our pleasure, we become more resilient versions of ourselves.
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Tower of Pleasure – The Ultimate Adult Foreplay Game - Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Tower of Pleasure – The Ultimate Adult Foreplay Game - Review – Pulse & Cocktails
I absolutely loved this foreplay date idea toy. Darren and I have quite good foreplay, well we thought we did but then this game came along and gave us so many more ideas. We loved it. We’ve played it a few times now and it just keeps giving us loads of fun. Its definitely a fun, seductive and sexy Jenga style game.
This is a great date night idea to build the Communication, Trust and Intimacy back up. If you feel like you are stuck with any of those, then this game is for you. I love the colours of the stack. Darren and I made an evening out of it. We set out a soft rug and soft cushions on the living room floor, lite some sensual candles, had the lighting low and put on some tantric music. This set the evening for a calm, inviting environment. We then got comfy and started the game. It really was fun to pull out the bricks and see which dare we each had to do. It made it fun as we were laughing, having a great time and being in the moment rather than being stressed with work or something else. We managed to do quite a few challenges and then I knocked the stack down by pulling out a purple brick. I’m too competitive really.
There are 54 blocks in total each with their own dare or foreplay task to do. The way this game works is that to get the points to win the game, you have to take out a brick and do the task it says for 10-15 seconds and then your partner can go. The player with the most points then initiates $ex where or whenever. Do each dare as they come up or get pulled from the stack of bricks.
There is a point system. All the Green blocks are worth 1 Point. All the Pink blocks are worth 2 Points and all the Purple blocks are worth 3 Points.
Oh my goodness, can we just take a second for this packaging! I am absolutely obsessed with the vibe of this box!
The base is this stunning purple, but it’s the lettering that really does it for me, it’s got this gorgeous mix of green, pink, and purple writing that just pops so beautifully. It’s so vibrant and fun!
And the best part? There is a cheeky little window on the front! I love being able to peek inside and see the bricks before I even open it. You know exactly what treats you’re getting, which is just so satisfying, isn't it?
I highly, highly recommend this if you need a little more connection and soul-interaction in your life. It’s about bringing that funness and spark back into the relationship.
I’m certainly recommending it to my clients.
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Black and Blue Lace Bustier with Garter Straps – Review – Pulse & Cocktails
Black and Blue Lace Bustier with Garter Straps – Review – Pulse & Cocktails
I was so happy to receive this lingerie as I know how well these fit and look on me. It comes in a little white and pink bag with a Ziplock on the top.
As I have a lot of meetings in person and on zoom, I always like to feel powerful and sexy, so underneath my suit jacket I wear some sexy lingerie. It doesn’t matter what people think of you, its how it makes you feel and by wearing this it really does make me feel calm, happy and in control.
Does what you wear under your suit affect how you lead a boardroom meeting? This Black and Blue Lace Bustier with Garter Straps comes from Pulse & Cocktails. What we wear underneath our professional attire changes our posture and mindset. This makes us feel so much more empowered.
There is a unique power in having a secret that only you know. In a professional setting, this creates a sense of power and control. This then gives you the power to believe in your ability to succeed.
According to research on body language, when we feel supported and refined by our lingerie, our shoulders tend to go back, and our spine straightens. This then gives us a higher level of testosterone meaning dominance/confidence hormone and lower levels of cortisol our stress hormone.
This is made from intricate black and blue lace. The lace against the skin acts as a constant sensory anchor. It feels so good against the skin and I know its there so when things get tough, I can think of this, how it feels against my skin and be in the moment, breathing, rather than feeling stressed.
I love the way the thong feels. It has a gap at the front which looks incredibly sexy on and feels soft against my skin.
In a high-pressure meeting, this soft, luxurious sensation can act as a grounding mechanism, keeping you present in your body rather than spiralling into anxiety.
This is beautifully put together and looks so sexy on my body. It really can make you feel so powerful and in control which I love. There are also beautiful clips for the garter or stockings. I love the colour and the way the lace feels to touch. Its very soft and delicate, exactly how I like my lingerie to be.
So next time you want to feel sexy, in control, sophisticated and powerful, go and buy this from Pulse & Cocktails.
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We- Vibe X Lovehoney Moxie + App Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Vibrator - Review - Lovehoney
We- Vibe X Lovehoney Moxie + App Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Vibrator Review - Lovehoney
What a great little vibrator. The first thing I noticed was how soft and silky it felt. It's just over three inches long and fits perfectly into the inset of the panties. I've never used a toy like this before, so I was excited to try it. I already have other vibrators, but this one is completely different. I love the colour, the packaging, and even the box it comes in. As usual, Lovehoney's packaging is discreet, arriving in a little pouch for storage.
The remote control offers 10 different modes, or you can use the app. My husband and I tried it with the app, and it was great. It was very easy to set up, and we found it didn't lose the Bluetooth connection, which a lot of other reviews mentioned.
I first tried it in the shower while my husband was in another room, controlling the modes. It felt good in the shower since it's 100% waterproof. At first, the powerful mode felt a bit too intense, but as I got used to it, it was fantastic.
I then tried it with my knickers. It comes with two magnets—one sits on the outside of the fabric, while the other is a spare. The vibrator itself sits between the fabric and your clitoris. I moved around the room, sat down, and tried different positions while my husband used the app to change the vibrations. You can even sync it to music, which we are excited to try next.
The app is really easy to use and has a great interface. I was able to climax just by sitting down, though I was tilting my pelvis slightly to get the full sensation.
I tried it while out for a coffee. While I thought it was a bit loud at home, it was certainly discreet in a busy coffee shop. My husband and I had some fun during our coffee date. Next, we're going to try it out on a date night at a restaurant.
I also tried it with different trousers. Jeans made it sit closer to my clitoris, while some baggy work trousers didn't provide as much pressure, so I had to tilt my pelvis to get the full effect.
I would highly recommend this for long-distance relationships because your partner can control the vibrator with the app. This is a great way to keep the spark alive and have fun.
It is quite noisy on the highest settings, but that doesn’t take away from how amazing this little toy is. The discreet drawstring pouch fits neatly in a purse. I am absolutely in love with this little vibrator and can't wait to use it again.
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Fifty Shades of Grey Play Nice Vanilla Scented Candle 90g - Review - Lovehoney
Fifty Shades of Grey Play Nice Vanilla Scented Candle 90g - Review - Lovehoney
I love the Fifty Shades franchise, so I thought, "Why not add something new to our sexual antics?" and gave this a try. The box is very nice, with shades of black, grey, white, and purple. As with all Lovehoney products, it was beautifully packaged and arrived discreetly. When I opened the box, a lovely waft of vanilla filled the room.
We put it on the bedside table, and even without it being lit, the vanilla aroma filled the room. It smells so divine and certainly sets a sensual and romantic mood. It was easy to light, and after a few minutes, the wax started to melt. We poured some of the hot oil onto our bodies and massaged it in. It felt very silky and rubbed in easily without leaving a waxy feeling on the skin. The wax is warm when applied and is made of a high-quality soy wax that can be used as a massage oil. It spreads well and smells amazing on the skin. It’s a very sensual candle, and we will certainly use it again—even just to set the scene for a nice evening if we don't fancy a massage. I would highly recommend this to spice up your sex life or just to feel connected to each other.
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Fleshlight Girls Vanna Bardot Dopamine Texture - Review - Lovehoney
Fleshlight Girls Vanna Bardot Dopamine Texture - Review - Lovehoney
My husband fancied this product.
The silicone vulva is modeled to an actual model and does look very realistic. The whole toy is silicone on the inside. The outer casing is plastic and is easy to hold when in use. The inner silicone part comes completely out of the outer casing to be washed. At the bottom of the fleshlight there is a screw cup base which you can unscrew or screw up for the pressure to increase or decrease. My husband couldn't really notice a difference in sensation when it was open or closed from the suction.
He said it didn't really feel like a real vulva when fully in but it did feel like it when the penis first went in. There is a ribbed texture at different lengths which help to keep you feeling the realness of a vulva.
It does require a lot of lube to be pumped into it before use. It can be warmed up but that requires something else to buy. Also with the clean up, you can buy special cleaning products to keep the inside of it open for the air flow. It did take days to dry.
Great packaging and as always discreet from Lovehoney. The actual packaging of the product is great. It is quite a big product to keep somewhere. Think of a giant torch you have for DIY, that large.
Here are his pro's and cons for the Fleshlight.
Pros:
Feels better than a hand.
Can be used in various positions.
Like how it feels when you really push against it.
Was able to aid edging techniques as the control is better than using a hand.
The feeling when finishing is amazing. You're able to hold that orgasm for longer than you would just using hands.
Cons:
Cleaning is a nightmare.
Feels like a proper chore to clean out all of your fluids and the lube.
Drying takes an absolute age as it takes a number of days to properly dry out inside. Trying to discreetly dry it out somewhere in the house with children around is a real worry.
May feel like a lot of effort after the fun had ended.
Feels like you have to purchase the official drying tool along with the softening powder to get the best out of it.
Enjoy and happy humping.
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Lovehoney Dark Orchid Navy Satin and Lace Chemise - Review - Lovehoney
Lovehoney Dark Orchid Navy Satin and Lace Chemise - Review - Lovehoney
Beautiful and very sexy.
I chose this nightwear as I wanted to feel even sexier. The way it drapes over my body feels great. I love the roucheness of the front of it, the way the satin gathers up at the front just in front of the chest. The lace at the bottom of the garment looks lovely.
There is a little discreet Lovehoney silver heart on the left shoulder strap which is cute. Little touches like this I love.
I love the styling of the halter neck. I hadn't really thought about how the straps would feel as I don't usually wear halter neck dresses but this one is great. Easy to adjust straps on both sides so can make it longer or shorter at the neck.
The dark orchard navy is a very sexy beautiful colour. Good sizing. I'm a size 10 and this is medium. Quite short but gives a nice figure from all sides. Very nice to sleep in as it is so soft against my skin and is great for warm summer nights. My husband likes this a lot and can't keep his hands off me.
Would highly recommend if you want to feel sexier in your nightwear.
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Liquid Silk Lube 250ml - Review - Lovehoney
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Liquid Silk Lube 250ml - Review - Lovehoney
Silky, Lubey.
I liked the description of this lube, as there are so many out there I wasn't sure which one would fit my needs compared to another one I use but this was great.
I have a few silicone toys which need a water based lube and this one was a perfect blend to use with those as well as in general.
It gives a silky feel to it but doesn't last as long as some of the rival ones. It dries up pretty quickly. I do however like the pump action to the bottle. It's very easy to use and pumps well. It warms quickly in your hand compared to others which is a bonus in the winter.
It's easy to clean off using water as it's water based. It doesn't taste of anything and doesn't have a smell to it. Great price. Would definitely recommend.
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Lovehoney Womanizer Enhance Pink Pleasure Air Clitoral Vibrator Review - Lovehoney
Lovehoney Womanizer Enhance Pink Pleasure Air Clitoral Vibrator Review - Lovehoney
Incredible!!
This toy is incredible at making me orgasm. It feels soft to the touch like a silky feel to it when brushing fingers over it, but it’s hard and firm. There are quite a few variations you can use, and the added air technology is fantastic. When the air technology is on, it feels cool around the clitoris, making it give different sensations around the whole of the area. I’ve never felt something like this from a toy before. The hole at the top of the toy which fits over the hood of the clitoris feels good against the vulval tissue. The sensations it gives are incredible with different wave patterns and different vibrations depending on the intensity you set it at. The toy is chargeable via USB which is great. I love the colours it comes in. It is shaped in a way for ease and comfort. I’ve tried in the bed next to my partner and also in the shower as its 100% waterproof.
I tried the air motor separately to the vibrations and it gives a different sensation each time you change the modes. As you can choose which to have, the vibrations from it start smooth then move to more of a rumbling sensation depending on the intensity you set it at. When on fully, it is quite loud and there was a cracking noise with the lube against my clitoris if the hood wasn’t fully over it but that didn’t stop me from orgasming twice both with different modes. It gave me a completely different orgasm both times compared to when I use fingers or other toys. This is a great combination. It’s made from silicone, and I use a water-based lube with it.
My next endeavour will be to try to squirt from it as my husband and I have been trying for a while, but I still haven’t managed to. I think this definitely will get me there. I absolutely love the packaging. Very beautifully packaged with soft sensual colours. Discreet packaging from Lovehoney as well which is good for those of you who don’t want to share your wears with the neighbours.
Most definitely worth investing in as it will give you so much intense pleasure. I for one am hooked.
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Liberator Fascinator Faux Fur Moisture Proof Throw – Queen - Review - Lovehoney
Liberator Fascinator Faux Fur Moisture Proof Throw – Queen - Review - Lovehoney
What an incredible piece of equipment this is!!
We got this because we like doing food play and messy play. It is big at 54 -72 inches, and it pretty much covers our king size bed. It is very soft on both sides with one side being furrier with the faux fur and the other side being velvety. We’ve tried cream, mashed banana, chocolate, oils and different forms of drinks including champagne and everything that was put on it never came through the other side. Its great absorbency and when used for a little while and then washed, the absorbency gets even better.
If you are a squirter then this is definitely one for you, you don’t have to worry about towels or worry about getting the bed wetter. We put it in the wash afterwards and it came out looking like new. It looks really nice against our bed and looks just like a luxury throw at the bottom of the bed against the cushions. It doesn’t look out of place if someone were to come into the bedroom. It just looks like a normal throw which could be used as a throw on the sofa in the winter as well as the bed.
It feels really nice to wrap up in naked feeling the very soft textures against the skin when dry.
When it’s wet it doesn't feel cold and doesn’t pool when the blanket gets pushed down with the weight of your body into the bed. It also absorbs very well so there is no slipping and sliding (although a negative if you wanted that). Sometimes with the weight of the body when kneeling, you have to be careful that the edges don't fall away into you, making the blanket crease up slightly. This wasn’t really a distraction though.
The packaging is great. It comes with a cardboard wrap with a couple laying on the top of the blanket, very sexy styling. I love the little insert which tells you a little about the blanket that it gets better over time, like a fine wine.
You can’t hear the waterproof lining at all in the blanket which is good because it can put you off sometimes when the mood strikes and you hear a lot of rustling. Which some of them you can do.
We tried it on the sofa and tucked it behind the back sofa cushions. It stayed there well and did its job again. It felt different on the sofa compared to the bed but in a good way.
I would highly recommend buying this one at the higher price point due to the more luxurious feel to it and the size as some of these blankets can come up on the small side, but we certainly weren’t disappointed. It's well worth the money.
I’m looking forward to taking it on a romantic picnic for us to get up to some naughty fun in the sun.
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