Week 1 — The Pleasure Edit

I am so excited to bring The Pleasure Guide from gemmanice.com straight over to the blog. For this first week, I wanted to share three products that are completely different from standard flat vibrators or just using your fingers. These are all about giving you a completely different orgasm, whether you want a slow build-up on a quiet evening or want to add something new to your sexual antics with your partner.

Grab a cuppa and let’s dive into my honest thoughts on these three clitoral toys.

Lovehoney Womanizer Enhance Pink Pleasure Air Clitoral Vibrator Review

Incredible vibrator from Lovehoney.

​This toy is incredible at making me orgasm. It feels soft to the touch like a silky feel to it when brushing fingers over it, but it’s hard and firm. There are quite a few variations you can use, and the added air technology is fantastic. When the air technology is on, it feels cool around the clitoris, making it give different sensations around the whole of the area. I’ve never felt something like this from a toy before.

The hole at the top of the toy which fits over the hood of the clitoris feels good against the vulval tissue. The sensations it gives are incredible with different wave patterns and different vibrations depending on the intensity you set it at. The toy is chargeable via USB which is great. I love the colours it comes in. It is shaped in a way for ease and comfort. I’ve tried in the bed next to my partner and also in the shower as its 100% waterproof.

I tried the air motor separately to the vibrations and it gives a different sensation each time you change the modes. As you can choose which to have, the vibrations from it start smooth then move to more of a rumbling sensation depending on the intensity you set it at. When on fully, it is quite loud and there was a cracking noise with the lube against my clitoris if the hood wasn’t fully over it but that didn’t stop me from orgasming twice both with different modes.

It gave me a completely different orgasm both times compared to when I use fingers or other toys. This is a great combination. It’s made from silicone, and I use a water-based lube with it. ​

My next endeavour will be to try to squirt from it as my husband and I have been trying for a while, but I still haven’t managed to. I think this definitely will get me there.

I absolutely love the packaging. Very beautifully packaged with soft sensual colours. Discreet packaging from Lovehoney as well which is good for those of you who don’t want to share your wears with the neighbours. ​ Most definitely worth investing in as it will give you so much intense pleasure. I for one am hooked.

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We-Vibe X Lovehoney Moxie + App Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Vibrator Review

What a Great Little Vibrator from Lovehoney.

​What a great little vibrator. The first thing I noticed was how soft and silky it felt. It's just over three inches long and fits perfectly into the inset of the panties. I've never used a toy like this before, so I was excited to try it. I already have other vibrators, but this one is completely different. I love the colour, the packaging, and even the box it comes in. As usual, Lovehoney's packaging is discreet, arriving in a little pouch for storage. ​

The remote control offers 10 different modes, or you can use the app. My husband and I tried it with the app, and it was great. It was very easy to set up, and we found it didn't lose the Bluetooth connection, which a lot of other reviews mentioned. ​ I first tried it in the shower while my husband was in another room, controlling the modes. It felt good in the shower since it's 100% waterproof. At first, the powerful mode felt a bit too intense, but as I got used to it, it was fantastic. ​

I then tried it with my knickers. It comes with two magnets, one sits on the outside of the fabric, while the other is a spare. The vibrator itself sits between the fabric and your clitoris. I moved around the room, sat down, and tried different positions while my husband used the app to change the vibrations. You can even sync it to music, which we are excited to try next. ​

The app is really easy to use and has a great interface. I was able to climax just by sitting down, though I was tilting my pelvis slightly to get the full sensation. I tried it while out for a coffee. While I thought it was a bit loud at home, it was certainly discreet in a busy coffee shop. My husband and I had some fun during our coffee date. Next, we're going to try it out on a date night at a restaurant.

I also tried it with different trousers. Jeans made it sit closer to my clitoris, while some baggy work trousers didn't provide as much pressure, so I had to tilt my pelvis to get the full effect. ​ I would highly recommend this for long-distance relationships because your partner can control the vibrator with the app.

This is a great way to keep the spark alive and have fun. ​ It is quite noisy on the highest settings, but that doesn’t take away from how amazing this little toy is. The discreet drawstring pouch fits neatly in a purse. I am absolutely in love with this little vibrator and can't wait to use it again.

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Buy the We-Vibe X Lovehoney Moxie Vibrator

Handheld Max Suction Clitoral Vibrator from AvidLovePlay​

Absolute Bliss

​I am absolutely loving this gorgeous purple suction vibe. It is a total game-changer for anyone wanting a slower, deeper build-up to their pleasure. Instead of the usual small designs, this one features a larger, well-balanced handle that offers a very secure grip for ease and comfort. The hole at the top which fits over the hood of the clitoris is brilliant, with a wide 24mm opening that targets the vulval tissue perfectly without pinching. It uses a clever, push-and-pull technology that doesn't just suck constantly, it actually draws you in and then gently releases in a rhythmic cycle that feels completely natural. ​

I’ve never felt something like this from a toy before. The sensations it gives are amazing, with 3 different intensity levels depending on what you set it at. What I love most is that the suction doesn't just hit an instant peak and make you go numb. It builds up beautifully over 2 to 3 minutes, making it a much more immersive experience that leaves you ready to go again and again. It is chargeable via USB and is waterproof. ​

It is very quiet, so you can fully unwind without any annoying buzz in the background. As with all their products, it arrives beautifully packaged and completely discreet.

A Little Tip: The handle is very comfortable to hold, but when using it, I found that gripping the base of the toy instead helps you press the suction head more firmly against your skin. It gives you much better control over the angle and pressure to get that perfect, airtight seal.

Gemma's Discount: This beauty is priced at £58.89, but you can use my special code ‘Gemma20’ for a massive 20% discount at the checkout.

Buy the Handheld Max Suction Clitoral Vibrator

Coach's Homework For This Week:

If you are trying out the air technology for the first time, my advice is to take your time. Let the sensation build up on the lowest setting first before you change the modes so you don't overwhelm yourself. And if you try out a wearable vibe like the Moxie, hand the app over to your partner while you are out for a coffee date! It is such a great way to keep the spark alive and have a bit of fun together.

See you next week for Week 2: Setting the Scene for Intimacy, where we'll be talking about massage candles and lingerie to set a sensual and romantic mood.