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Spotting the Breadcrumbs, Surviving the Paperclips, and Reclaiming Your Worth
In the modern digital dating landscape, communication has never been easier, yet genuine commitment has never felt more elusive. If you have ever found yourself staring at your phone, completely confused by someone who sends flirty messages but constantly evades a real date, you have likely fallen victim to a highly manipulative dating trend.
It is called breadcrumbing, and it is designed to keep you emotionally hooked on an absolute baseline of attention.

Gemma
Jul 195 min read


Why Successful Women Date Bad Boys: My Expert Commentary for The Sun Newspaper
I was recently asked by The Sun newspaper to share my professional insights on a relationship trend that puzzles so many: Why do highly successful, intelligent women consistently fall for bad boys?
When a woman has her career, finances, and life completely locked down, you would think she’d look for stability in her love life. But often, the exact opposite happens.
If you missed the article in the press, here is my full expert breakdown of the psychology...

Gemma
Jun 183 min read


Backyard Boundaries: How to Navigate Attraction and Secrets with Your Neighbours
Living in close proximity to people means our personal lives and social boundaries naturally overlap. But what happens when neighborly relations become a bit more complicated?

Gemma
Jun 174 min read


Speaking Their Heart: Why Love Languages Are the Secret to a Lasting Relationship
When it comes to building a deeply connected, thriving relationship, understanding how you and your partner give and receive affection is everything. This is where the concept of The 5 Love Languages becomes an invaluable tool.

Gemma
Jun 154 min read


Why Jeremiah Fisher is a Walking Red Flag in 'The Summer I Turned Pretty': A Relationship Coach’s Breakdown
With the massive success of The Summer I Turned Pretty on our screens and bookshelves, fans on TikTok have been locked in a fierce debate over Team Conrad vs. Team Jeremiah.
But if we strip away the romantic music and look at the behavior objectively, Jeremiah's actions during the wedding storyline raise some serious, real-life relationship red flags.
As a sex and relationship coach, I analyse these dynamics to help people spot toxic patterns in their own lives.

Gemma
Jun 135 min read


Can You Really Stay Friends with a Short-Term Ex? The Unique Challenges and How to Navigate Them
Choosing to stay friends with an ex after a short-term relationship presents a very specific set of hurdles. While the romance might have been brief, the emotional fallout can be surprisingly intense.
As a relationship coach, I often see clients struggle with lingering romantic or sexual feelings, unwanted attention, and the sheer difficulty of maintaining platonic boundaries when the breakup is still fresh.

Gemma
Jun 113 min read


Why Mind-Reading is Ruining Your Relationship (and How to Fix It)
We’ve all been there: wishing our partner could just know exactly what we need without us having to say a word. But is expecting someone to read your mind a realistic standard, or a recipe for heartbreak?

Gemma
May 224 min read
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