In my line of work as a sex and relationship coach, I see a massive influx of couples hitting a wall right around the 7-year and 12-year marks. It is what society traditionally calls the 7-year itch, and it is a very real psychological milestone. This is the phase where one or both partners start to feel a deep sense of dissatisfaction, boredom, and disconnection. But hitting this rut doesn't mean your relationship is over, it simply means the default routine has run its cour