We are often told that the perfect morning routine involves meditation, a green juice, or hitting the gym. But as a sex and relationship coach, there is one foundational, body-honouring activity that I recommend to my clients above everything else: starting your day with an orgasm.

Yoga is an incredible tool for improving your sex life and deepening your physical intimacy. When you incorporate yoga into your bedroom antics, it does something far greater than just increasing your flexibility, it actively coaxes your body into a completely relaxed state.

Masturbation is still one of the heaviest taboos in modern society. It is frequently labeled as dirty or shameful, wrapped in unhelpful rules that tell us our sexuality should be kept hidden away in the dark. This cultural hush creates a massive wave of self-consciousness, guilt, and body shame that can directly trigger mental health issues. It stops us from discussing solo play with our friends or partners, when sharing these ideas is exactly what brings us closer to our bo

In a world where women, and particularly mothers, get little to no time for themselves, a new wellness trend is quietly taking over. It’s called porn dosing, and it involves listening to short snippets of audio erotica throughout the day. Far from being just about a quick release, 92% of women say porn dosing has actively benefited their relationships. As a sex and relationship coach, I highly recommend this practice to my clients. It is an incredible tool for mental wellbein

Stigma is essentially a pleasure killer because it keeps the body in a state of fight or flight. When we feel like self-pleasure is a secret or a chore, our cortisol stays high and the blood never makes it down to the 10,000 nerve endings where we need it most. Whenever I see my clients, the first thing we talk about is that feeling loved has to start from within. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t fully love another, and this is exactly where masturbation comes in.