It is a specific type of emotional whiplash that has taken over the modern dating scene: a guy showers you with excessive compliments, tells you everything you've ever wanted to hear, treats you like the center of his universe, and then completely vanishes into thin air the very next day.

We all have a type. For some, it’s a shared love for an obscure hobby. For others, it’s a highly specific physical trait, like a fixation on a partner’s hands, neck, or sculpted arms. Take a client of mine, let's call him Lorenzo. When it comes to dating, Lorenzo has an incredibly niche requirement: he is strictly looking for a girl with toned, beautiful arms. When someone has such laser-focused, niche requirements in dating, it begs the question: Is this just a harmless