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The Sleep Divorce Secret: Why Separate Bedrooms Might Be the Best Thing for Your Relationship
There comes a time in almost every single relationship when one person simply cannot sleep because of their partner. Whether it is due to aggressive snoring, constant tossing and turning, or mismatched work schedules, one person inevitably ends up dragging their pillow to the sofa or the spare room in the middle of the night.
As a relationship coach, I advise my clients time and time again to make this shift intentional.

Gemma
17 hours ago5 min read


Reclaiming the Village: Why Boomers Redefining Girlhood is the Antidote to Modern Burnout
Rejecting isolation for the sisterhood. Relationship expert Gemma Nice breaks down why older women are reclaiming the village through modern co-living spaces.

Gemma
2 days ago3 min read


The Relocation Romance: Why Moving to a New Place Might Be the Ultimate Way to Find Love
When your dating life feels completely stagnant, it is incredibly easy to blame the modern apps or assume you have simply exhausted every romantic avenue in your hometown. You get entirely stuck in a localised rut, dating within the same workplace, the same social circles, or the exact same neighborhood pubs for years on end.
But what happens when you pick up your life, pack your bags, and move to a completely different part of the country....

Gemma
2 days ago5 min read


Having a Type vs. Over-Filtering: The True Psychology Behind Niche Dating Preferences
We all have a type. For some, it’s a shared love for an obscure hobby. For others, it’s a highly specific physical trait, like a fixation on a partner’s hands, neck, or sculpted arms.
Take a client of mine, let's call him Lorenzo. When it comes to dating, Lorenzo has an incredibly niche requirement: he is strictly looking for a girl with toned, beautiful arms.
When someone has such laser-focused, niche requirements in dating, it begs the question: Is this just a harmless

Gemma
Jun 94 min read


Unpacking Adult Virginity: The Somatic Shift From Heavy Shame to Conscious Intimacy
Society loves to paint adult virginity as a ticking clock, creating a heavy cloud of shame that keeps your nervous system in a constant state of high alert. The biggest misconception people have is that if you are an adult virgin, you are somehow behind in life.
But as a somatic relationship coach, I need to tell you the raw truth: sexual intimacy is not a competitive race, it is entirely about knowing when you are personally ready.

Gemma
Jun 44 min read


Eating in Bed: Ultimate Comfort or a Relationship Dealbreaker?
There is something undeniably luxurious about crawling under the duvet with a warm bowl of food or a fresh cup of coffee. Whether it’s a lazy Sunday breakfast in bed or a comforting late-night snack after an exhausting day, the bed can feel like the ultimate sanctuary.
But as a relationship and wellness coach, I often look at our daily habits through two lenses: how they affect our bodies (and nervous systems), and how they impact our connections with our partners.

Gemma
Jun 44 min read
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