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Gassed Up Then Ghosted: The Dark Psychology of Modern Love Bombing
It is a specific type of emotional whiplash that has taken over the modern dating scene: a guy showers you with excessive compliments, tells you everything you've ever wanted to hear, treats you like the center of his universe, and then completely vanishes into thin air the very next day.

Gemma
2 days ago5 min read


Ditching Condoms? 7 Critical Red Flags Every Couple Must Check First
Moving from using protection to bare intimacy is a major milestone in any new relationship or situationship. It represents a deepening of bond and a huge leap in vulnerability. But far too often, couples rush this transition because they are swept up in the honeymoon phase, accidentally putting their emotional and physical health at serious risk.

Gemma
4 days ago4 min read


The Pampering Trap: How Acts of Service Can Save, or Ruin, Your Relationship
We often treat pampering as a buzzword reserved for expensive spa days or Valentine's Day clichés. But in a real, day-to-day relationship, true pampering is a form of deep emotional currency. It is a collection of intentional acts of service designed to make your partner feel completely special, seen, and cared for. Whether it is stepping in to clear the burden of household chores, running errands so they don't have to, drawing a warm bath after a brutal week, or offering phy

Gemma
5 days ago3 min read


The Snooping Trap: Why Checking Your Partner’s Phone is a Relationship Dealbreaker
It starts with a flickering screen, a notification at an odd hour, or a random comment dropped by a friend in passing. Suddenly, an old memory from a toxic past relationship flares up. Your heart rate quickens, your palms sweat, and before you know it, you are typing in your partner’s passcode while they are out of the room.

Gemma
6 days ago4 min read


How to Tell Your Ex That You Have an STI: A Compassionate, Step-by-Step Guide
Finding out you have a sexually transmitted infection (STI) can bring up an immediate wave of panic, confusion, and fear. But one of the heaviest hurdles is realising you need to contact an ex-partner to let them know they might be at risk.

Gemma
7 days ago5 min read


Escaping the Mother-Son Dynamic: How to Fairly Divide Household Chores Without Ruining the Romance
It is one of the most common complaints I hear in my coaching practice, particularly from women: "I feel like I’m running the entire house by myself. I don't feel like a partner anymore, I feel like a mother to my husband."
Despite living in modern times, society still largely pushes domestic chores into the woman’s domain. Let's be completely raw and real about this: it is exhausting. You both work, you both run the house, and maybe you are both parents.

Gemma
Jun 114 min read


The Assumption Trap: When Opposite-Sex Best Friends and Broken Communication Collide
If you spend any time on the internet, you’ve probably scrolled past those viral "Am I The Arsehole?" relationship dilemmas. A recent one caught my eye, and as a relationship coach, I just had to break it down.
Here’s the setup: A husband plans a getaway to a car race with his female best friend. He assumes his wife knows it’s a trip just for the two of them. Meanwhile, the wife assumes she is naturally invited along for a nice holiday, wanting to share an experience her h

Gemma
Jun 73 min read


The Spring Intimacy Trap: Why Seasonal Optimism Makes Us Skip Sexual Health Check-Ins
As spring arrives, our social calendars fill up, our rigid winter routines naturally loosen, and dating becomes beautifully spontaneous. There is a collective sigh of relief as we step out of the dark.
But this seasonal shift brings a distinct change in sexual health behavior. During this period, people become far more likely to rely on lazy assumptions rather than active health check-ins.

Gemma
May 315 min read
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