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Reclaiming the Peak: Why a Woman’s Sexual Peak is a State of the Nervous System
When a woman comes into my practice and asks when she will finally hit her sexual peak, I always tell her the exact same thing: it is more of a feeling and a regulation of the nervous system, not a specific date, age, or time of a life stage.
There are so many factors that contribute to this. However, I know many women in their 40s will naturally hit their sexual peak because they finally know exactly what they want from their sexual encounters.

Gemma
5 days ago3 min read


Waking Up the 10,000 Nerve Endings: The O-Shot Guide for Lesbians & Sapphics
Waking Up the 10,000 Nerve Endings: The O-Shot Guide for Lesbians & Sapphics
In the world of sexual wellness, we are constantly discovering new ways to help people reclaim their physical pleasure and bodily intuition. One treatment that has been gaining massive traction, especially within the lesbian and sapphic communities, is the O-Shot, or the Orgasm Shot.
While it has been around since 2011, more and more women are turning to this non-surgical procedure to invest in the

Gemma
6 days ago4 min read


Silence Is the Crisis: How STI Stigma Is Fuelling a Public Health Emergency in Plain Sight
Many of my coaching clients feel they cannot be open, honest, or raw with each other, especially regarding STIs and sharing results. With syphilis at a 77-year high and scabies jumping by 43%, the message is clear: society does more damage than the infections themselves. The fear of shame surrounds conditions that are easily treated.
In my coaching, I believe a vibrant sex life is a pillar of overall wellness for both body and mind.

Gemma
Jun 152 min read


The Truth About the Sex Recession: Why We’re Having Less Sex (But Better Connections)
It’s a headline we keep seeing everywhere lately: People are having less sex nowadays.
As a sex and relationship coach, I can tell you that this statistic is absolutely real. It is especially prevalent within the younger generations, who are living at home with parents longer and navigating an entirely digital world. But the real question isn't just if we are having less sex, it's why it's happening, and what is taking its place.

Gemma
Jun 54 min read


Understanding Sex Addiction: Myths, Signs, and the Path to Holistic Recovery
Breaking the stigma. Discover the real causes behind compulsive sexual behavior, its impact on relationships, and holistic tools like Tantra breathwork to heal.

Gemma
Jun 24 min read


Jet-Set Arousal: Why Intimacy Vacations Are the New Ultimate Self-Care
There is a powerful shift happening in how we view travel and relationships. Couples are no longer just booking standard holidays or planning what used to be called a "dirty weekend away." Instead, we are seeing the rise of "Intimacy Vacations" and "Jet-Set Arousal."
People are intentionally crossing borders to prioritise their sexual wellbeing and emotional wellness.

Gemma
May 264 min read
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